mysterymanelp
Don Juan
Has a female ever told you... Sometimes you can't always act on feelings you gotta think about the other people that are also involved...
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
what???
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Has a female ever told you... Sometimes you can't always act on feelings you gotta think about the other people that are also involved...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Maybe not those exact words. Perhaps something like "Hey that looks like a nice place to stop." Dirty looks as I drive on past.
Since when have women not acted on feelings? After a crash course in Vulcan logic? I suppose you are going to tell us all here in this "mature" man's forum that she was trying to tell you that she is horny for you but has to think about someone else she is also feeling horny towards. Her statement I am afraid, is quite illogical in any event. We can't act on feelings because of our feelings about other people who are involved. See my point?
Since when have women not acted on feelings? After a crash course in Vulcan logic? I suppose you are going to tell us all here in this "mature" man's forum that she was trying to tell you that she is horny for you but has to think about someone else she is also feeling horny towards. Her statement I am afraid, is quite illogical in any event. We can't act on feelings because of our feelings about other people who are involved. See my point?
Heathscythe
Don Juan
Gee, I don't know dude. Are you a Jesus man? Or are you a no man? What would you like done to you. The way i see it, if a chick is involved, back off.
Heathscythe
Don Juan
try...
Oh yeah, and stop reading Bukowski. Try the King James Bible.
Oh yeah, and stop reading Bukowski. Try the King James Bible.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
you would think that at 27 you would already know you shouldnt act on every feeling anyhow.
if you feel its big enough to act on, then it probally is.
which makes you wonder why she doesnt want you to act on it, and there is no story to help us identify what is going on to give you any advise worth taking.
go with your gut.
if you feel its big enough to act on, then it probally is.
which makes you wonder why she doesnt want you to act on it, and there is no story to help us identify what is going on to give you any advise worth taking.
go with your gut.