Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What you should NOT say to women: a small investigation

Masculinity

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I have a friend who spends a lot of time on a popular iPhone application looking for women. Curious to get to the bottom of the situation (whether it works or not and how much competition is involved) I made a post as a female. All that was included in the posting was (1) my age, (2)the fact that I was a "female," (3) a message saying "Hi" with a picture of the girl on the background.

I did not manipulate anything, so this is only a frequency table I put together. Notice that the post was NOT sexual AT ALL, which I suspect would only increase the numbers. In total, I received 68 responses in less than 45 minutes.

In short, stay away from these openers. Better yet, stay away from online gaming in general! Here you go:

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The image is really blurry for me I'm not sure if it is for any one else. And VikingKing has been recently making it re-known that the supply for women has blatantly out matched the supply for men.

I thought it was bad a year ago and can only imagine it getting worse.
 

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Screen shots are a pain in the butt to make look clear. If anyone is having the same problem, I would be happy to email you the file
 

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Must be a pain in the ass when guys are this boring.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Masculinity said:
Screen shots are a pain in the butt to make look clear. If anyone is having the same problem, I would be happy to email you the file
I'm still curious on what they said so email me it please!
 

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Frayzer said:
The image is really blurry for me I'm not sure if it is for any one else. And VikingKing has been recently making it re-known that the supply for women has blatantly out matched the supply for men.

I thought it was bad a year ago and can only imagine it getting worse.
I'm on my phone and can see it, click the magnifying class in top right corner. I could see it just fine then.
The only semi-okay opener on there is I bet your keeper. But still low-tier.
Maybe the "how do you feel about black guys?"
 

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PipeDope said:
I'm on my phone and can see it, click the magnifying class in top right corner. I could see it just fine then.
The only semi-okay opener on there is I bet your keeper. But still low-tier.
Maybe the "how do you feel about black guys?"
Oh sweet didn't notice that, thanks!

This is why I figure out what to say by looking at her pics if not reading her bio and gathering a question or statement from there.
 

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Frayzer said:
Oh sweet didn't notice that, thanks!

This is why I figure out what to say by looking at her pics if not reading her bio and gathering a question or statement from there.
Agreed, the clever observer always wins the opener.
 

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File this one under "duh".
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Frayzer said:
Oh sweet didn't notice that, thanks!

This is why I figure out what to say by looking at her pics if not reading her bio and gathering a question or statement from there.
Exactly, preferably find something in her photos or profile that you can mess with her. That way you can sometimes screen if shes an uptight ***** or not.
 
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