"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What you should NOT say to women: a small investigation

Masculinity

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I have a friend who spends a lot of time on a popular iPhone application looking for women. Curious to get to the bottom of the situation (whether it works or not and how much competition is involved) I made a post as a female. All that was included in the posting was (1) my age, (2)the fact that I was a "female," (3) a message saying "Hi" with a picture of the girl on the background.

I did not manipulate anything, so this is only a frequency table I put together. Notice that the post was NOT sexual AT ALL, which I suspect would only increase the numbers. In total, I received 68 responses in less than 45 minutes.

In short, stay away from these openers. Better yet, stay away from online gaming in general! Here you go:

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The image is really blurry for me I'm not sure if it is for any one else. And VikingKing has been recently making it re-known that the supply for women has blatantly out matched the supply for men.

I thought it was bad a year ago and can only imagine it getting worse.
 

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Screen shots are a pain in the butt to make look clear. If anyone is having the same problem, I would be happy to email you the file
 

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Must be a pain in the ass when guys are this boring.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Masculinity said:
Screen shots are a pain in the butt to make look clear. If anyone is having the same problem, I would be happy to email you the file
I'm still curious on what they said so email me it please!
 

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Frayzer said:
The image is really blurry for me I'm not sure if it is for any one else. And VikingKing has been recently making it re-known that the supply for women has blatantly out matched the supply for men.

I thought it was bad a year ago and can only imagine it getting worse.
I'm on my phone and can see it, click the magnifying class in top right corner. I could see it just fine then.
The only semi-okay opener on there is I bet your keeper. But still low-tier.
Maybe the "how do you feel about black guys?"
 

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PipeDope said:
I'm on my phone and can see it, click the magnifying class in top right corner. I could see it just fine then.
The only semi-okay opener on there is I bet your keeper. But still low-tier.
Maybe the "how do you feel about black guys?"
Oh sweet didn't notice that, thanks!

This is why I figure out what to say by looking at her pics if not reading her bio and gathering a question or statement from there.
 

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Frayzer said:
Oh sweet didn't notice that, thanks!

This is why I figure out what to say by looking at her pics if not reading her bio and gathering a question or statement from there.
Agreed, the clever observer always wins the opener.
 

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File this one under "duh".
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Frayzer said:
Oh sweet didn't notice that, thanks!

This is why I figure out what to say by looking at her pics if not reading her bio and gathering a question or statement from there.
Exactly, preferably find something in her photos or profile that you can mess with her. That way you can sometimes screen if shes an uptight ***** or not.
 
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