"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What you Need to know about the shy girl

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K guys I'm tryin to get with the shy girl, quiet girl. I'm somewhat sure that they don't portray IL the same way that normal girls would. Maybe this girl is just not interested in me, but she's been flirty / playful online and has invited me over to hang w/ her roommates.

One more thing, I asked if she wanted to grab lunch w/ me before my next class, she took a little time to respond, then said, she usually eats lunch with so and so (i know them all), and then asked if i wanted to join. Does this mean anything ?

I need to know everything you all know about shy girls, and IL, b/c they are a different breed than normal women. Thx
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Just cuz she seems shy in public doesn't mean much. She might be a really crazy girl once you get to know her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i've broken through the shy barrier. she was they type of girl you wanna take home to meet mommy.

too much work to keep it together, and i didnt want a LTR or even STR- although i thought i did.

too much trouble...

that's why i ask "how much is she worth it to you?"
 
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she's shy at first, but once u get to know her she's normal, maybe somewhat crazy once in a while. But she is somewhat quiet to begin with. I've been hanging out w/ her and her rooommates a little this past week and a half. Been flirting a little, but Ive gotten no real heavy eye contact. My kino has done some good, but I'm still not sure about her IL. I will probably ask her out on Friday to end this, but I'd still like to get feedback on the shy girls IL, if she shows it. I've heard from some shy girls that they dont really show any IL. Which is freakin' annoying b/c its like a guessing game.
 
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she's an awesome girl. Def. worth a lot to me IMO. I have some **** buddies, so its not really about that. LTR material IMO. Whatever it takes within reason W/O having to cross the AFC barrier.
 
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Honestly, she's not that much different than any other girl. You should probably move at a slightly slower pace, and do more work to get her in the comfort zone before you use kino - that's about all you need to do differently.
 
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Even girls who seem outgoing and extroverted, can act shy when around you if they are attracted to you. I've hung around girls who were into me but did a amazing job at not showing it.

Maybe she's just shy around you?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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