"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What You Like/Dislike About the New Forum

Ever onward

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I wish there were some kind of explanation for the reputation system. Mine says I'm "off the scale" is that good or bad?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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looks alot like bb.com forums
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Don Ronny

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Too much white hurts the eyes!

:nervous:

Seriously. Try a darker muted color backgroundthat wont fry our retinas.

Other than that, nice job!
 

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Weak_Game said:
Looks like the bodybuilding.com forum

Didn't mind the old design but this is fine.

Also like the bodybuilding.com forum's the rep system. I hated it. People will be afraid to post how they really feel about topics when someone with a higher rep can neg them into nothing. People spamming posts of useless crap in hopes someone + reps them. Or begging for reps. Abuse of the rep system and so forth.

I like how i knew who the good posters were from reading the forums based on feedback. Not on some green e-peen they have. So now someone with massive reps here will be a virgin that dosent go out and actually get laid. I liked quality content not quanity feedback from kiss asses.

Now someone can neg rep me for speaking my mind. I dont like it honestly.
Good points, the "rep" system is a joke especially here where chumps far outweigh posters who actually have a clue. Its just going to give the current AFCs a platform to continue parroting bollocks because those who actually put stock into a "reputation" system will be to worried to call them out.

So will I be looking for posters with a negative reputation to give me help if and when I need advice? Probably.

To be worried about pissing off the mainstream is EXACTLY what this place doesnt need. I dont care but you can bet your ass others will.

It will work at masf where good advice outweighs the mainstream (bad), but here I would be skeptical.


Edit: Ok I just negative repped frivolous, how many of these stupid things do we get a day?
 
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Mr. Unique

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Forum is the same as mysterys forum, only not black. I agree with ronny, the colors are not eye easy as the layout we had before.
 

Create Reality

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Hey all. I don't like the forum look and the color options at all. I liked the last one because it was flat colored and didn't try to fake being 3d like this new one does (using the Tigra skin or whatever). I do like the rep system that seems like a cool option. Other then that lack of good skins it's just dandy!
 

penkitten

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i really enjoy the quick reply and i really like being able to get online no matter how many users are here :)
however i didnt remember my password and asked for it several times yesterday . it kept sending me emails saying it was reset and would be sent to me, but wasnt yesterday. however today as soon as i asked for it to be reset, it was emailed right then.
guess sometimes there are gliches in new things for a bit.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tomatoes

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Doesnt display age with location anymore...i always found that usefull. Cant be arsed to go into every single account page to find that **** out.


Apart from that it looks abit better but not alot else has changed....or at least i aint found the new stuff yet. The down time made me bored at work.....But all is good now
 

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Tomatoes said:
Doesnt display age with location anymore...i always found that usefull.=
i really liked the age discription also, however alot of folks just lied on it, so sometimes it wasnt so useful.:rockon:
 

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This forum does allow for more discrete viewing which is a real advantage if you want to sneak a peak at work. Not that the girl wasn't an HB9 or so on the screen.

Now this site is just like the sports site I read daily or bodybuilding as well.

Not too bad, seems to load alot faster. ASF needs to do something like this as it loads very slowly.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Ricky said:
This forum does allow for more discrete viewing which is a real advantage if you want to sneak a peak at work. Not that the girl wasn't an HB9 or so on the screen.....
Yeah, and even though I like the fresher format it looks like I'm on some type of MySpace site trolling for teenie-boppers. :nervous:
 

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DISLIKE: There's no date on the messages.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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belividere

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forget the rep system it will just be a joke within weeks. I really dislike taking the posters age off. Especially considering how bad the youngsters would spam the mature mans forum as of recent. I dont want advice from 16yr old virgins, who have high rep because they have too much free time.

The layout is nicer though and the quick reply helps.
 
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Don Ronny said:
Too much white hurts the eyes!

:nervous:

Seriously. Try a darker muted color backgroundthat wont fry our retinas.

Other than that, nice job!
I think this is the best advice ronny boy offered on this site to date!:yes: Just joking ronny.

The only thing I don't like is the new "rolleyes" emoticon - the eyes are not rolled that much and it is blue. A blue rolleyes emoticon?? Pffft, who has ever heard of such a thing!

And one last thing...Free PRL!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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