"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What you guys doing tonight?

Solomon

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]I'm about to go out see what type adventure I can get myself into

:woo: :cheer: :rock:
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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spiegel549

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Solomon said:
]I'm about to go out see what type adventure I can get myself into

:woo: :cheer: :rock:

You live in LA?
 

Desdinova

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Met three new women in their early 20s thanks to the social status I built at this particular place. Two are interested, one I'm not sure about. I also got asked out by a 19 year old I met on Tuesday. Tomorrow night, my 2-month plate is coming over. Sunday, I have a record convention to attend and I'm apparently meeting up with the 19 year old that day. Next week, I'm out of town for work.

Very busy schedule.
 

Stort_Brød

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had a date with a 32yr old this morning (im 22 :D) should be hitting the nightlife to see what lovely ladies I could grace with my presence and then a nice early morning date tomorrow. now I just need to line one up for monday HOORAY long weekend
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Today i approached four girls. Got blown out three times and fvcked a chick on her period
 

cordoncordon

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Spent all afternoon betting the Breeders Crown races. Now about to play a game of Tiger Woods Xbox with my fiance while sipping on an adult beverage and then we will head for for a few drinks.

FYI I live north of LA in Valencia CA.
 

Stort_Brød

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it is sunday lol.... no town tonight so gym a run with the dog then FOOOOOD and dig through the collection of ps3 games
 

GS750

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Had a date I met with a girl I met online and then I hit the gym.
 

foreverAFC

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im about to go to sleep
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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fuko2007

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debateing on going to the next bar. if i do ill be to drunk and will have to catch a ride. went hunting so my ar-15 is in my car, wouldnt look good to get that out in the parking lot. so home is the most logical choice. naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa im goin out
 

Wolfgang D

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Went to the pub to see people from a free-time activity I'm in on and off. Met a new girl in the group. Talked to her a long time, let her do most of the talking; then left before she could start looking at her watch. After I got her email address because I am going to send her info on something. Which means we can stay in contact, and next weekend or the weekend after that I can suggest coffee.

After that, been home by my desk working. Friday evening. Such is life.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Peaks&Valleys

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Jerking off.

Unless I get a booty text, but I don't see that happening.
 

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Adding stock to my online bussiness, drinking Bailey's. About to do medieval on my ans and then set off a large box of fireworks
 

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finishing an important essay. working all tomorrow too. need that GPA solid.

I've got vacation starting Friday. Just holdin' out till then :)
 

hockeyfreak79

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Shockers hockey tonight. 2 in the pink, 1 in the stink!

Then possibly get with a plate or hit the honkey tonk.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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