Solomon
Master Don Juan
]I'm about to go out see what type adventure I can get myself into
:woo: :cheer: :rock:
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What you guys doing tonight?
- Thread starter Solomon
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
spiegel549
Senior Don Juan
Solomon said:
You live in LA?
Desdinova
Master Don Juan
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Met three new women in their early 20s thanks to the social status I built at this particular place. Two are interested, one I'm not sure about. I also got asked out by a 19 year old I met on Tuesday. Tomorrow night, my 2-month plate is coming over. Sunday, I have a record convention to attend and I'm apparently meeting up with the 19 year old that day. Next week, I'm out of town for work.
Very busy schedule.
Very busy schedule.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
had a date with a 32yr old this morning (im 22 
) should be hitting the nightlife to see what lovely ladies I could grace with my presence and then a nice early morning date tomorrow. now I just need to line one up for monday HOORAY long weekend
) should be hitting the nightlife to see what lovely ladies I could grace with my presence and then a nice early morning date tomorrow. now I just need to line one up for monday HOORAY long weekend
Solomon
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
cordoncordon
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Spent all afternoon betting the Breeders Crown races. Now about to play a game of Tiger Woods Xbox with my fiance while sipping on an adult beverage and then we will head for for a few drinks.
FYI I live north of LA in Valencia CA.
FYI I live north of LA in Valencia CA.
Stort_Brød
Senior Don Juan
it is sunday lol.... no town tonight so gym a run with the dog then FOOOOOD and dig through the collection of ps3 games
foreverAFC
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im about to go to sleep
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
LandingWood
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The **** bruh?XY. said:
Solomon
Master Don Juan
A chick (professor) flaked on me for the 2nd time (silly me)
Gonna hit the field see what I can do
Watching Snowplow to get motivated....miring
Gonna hit the field see what I can do
Watching Snowplow to get motivated....miring
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
debateing on going to the next bar. if i do ill be to drunk and will have to catch a ride. went hunting so my ar-15 is in my car, wouldnt look good to get that out in the parking lot. so home is the most logical choice. naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa im goin out
Wolfgang D
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Went to the pub to see people from a free-time activity I'm in on and off. Met a new girl in the group. Talked to her a long time, let her do most of the talking; then left before she could start looking at her watch. After I got her email address because I am going to send her info on something. Which means we can stay in contact, and next weekend or the weekend after that I can suggest coffee.
After that, been home by my desk working. Friday evening. Such is life.
After that, been home by my desk working. Friday evening. Such is life.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
fuko2007
Senior Don Juan
out right now. Abt to go chat these girls up right now
Peaks&Valleys
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Jerking off.
Unless I get a booty text, but I don't see that happening.
Unless I get a booty text, but I don't see that happening.
denverfan110
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finishing an important essay. working all tomorrow too. need that GPA solid.
I've got vacation starting Friday. Just holdin' out till then
I've got vacation starting Friday. Just holdin' out till then
hockeyfreak79
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Shockers hockey tonight. 2 in the pink, 1 in the stink!
Then possibly get with a plate or hit the honkey tonk.
Then possibly get with a plate or hit the honkey tonk.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.