"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What you guys do at night?

Zaraza

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Hey guys, ive never really seen this question, but what does everyone here do at night? besides going to the nearest club?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Patrick124

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Hookah bars. finding people to drink with, or go where the party is and jsut dance n chat it up with people if u dont drink, go out for dinner. Drive around, go to football games/other sporting events[field hockey, volleyball..those shorts lol].
concerts are fun, even if its jsut a small local band u like. do w/e man.

I've been meaning to get drunk with people and go cosmic bowling, we'll see if thats anywhere in the near future. lol.
 

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go hang out with friends, go out and eat with them
see a movie
go party
kick back at someones house and drink (dont drink and drive)
smoke some hookah
have everyone stay the night somewhere (include girls)
*include girls into almost everything unless its a guys night out*
theres always the drive ins
bowling
driving around and yelling at people for fun
concerts
rent movies
have the guys come over and play some xbox

just have fun man do what makes you happy
 

Chase12

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parties
sumtimes clubs
sumtimes ill just call some friends to hang out and go drink or smoke some weed
going to shows
go to my kickboxing classes (i only do this on weekdays tho.. cuz i barely go out at nigth on these days since theres school the next day)
go with friends to pick up fights with random strangers


and thats about i t
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Charm&Style

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GaryUranga said:
thats such an inappropiate question in a mostly male forum in which theres a high % that have never talked to a girl.


LMAO.

Gary...:crazy:
 
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