"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What you guys do at night?

Zaraza

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Hey guys, ive never really seen this question, but what does everyone here do at night? besides going to the nearest club?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Patrick124

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Hookah bars. finding people to drink with, or go where the party is and jsut dance n chat it up with people if u dont drink, go out for dinner. Drive around, go to football games/other sporting events[field hockey, volleyball..those shorts lol].
concerts are fun, even if its jsut a small local band u like. do w/e man.

I've been meaning to get drunk with people and go cosmic bowling, we'll see if thats anywhere in the near future. lol.
 

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go hang out with friends, go out and eat with them
see a movie
go party
kick back at someones house and drink (dont drink and drive)
smoke some hookah
have everyone stay the night somewhere (include girls)
*include girls into almost everything unless its a guys night out*
theres always the drive ins
bowling
driving around and yelling at people for fun
concerts
rent movies
have the guys come over and play some xbox

just have fun man do what makes you happy
 

Chase12

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parties
sumtimes clubs
sumtimes ill just call some friends to hang out and go drink or smoke some weed
going to shows
go to my kickboxing classes (i only do this on weekdays tho.. cuz i barely go out at nigth on these days since theres school the next day)
go with friends to pick up fights with random strangers


and thats about i t
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Charm&Style

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GaryUranga said:
thats such an inappropiate question in a mostly male forum in which theres a high % that have never talked to a girl.


LMAO.

Gary...:crazy:
 
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