"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What you do for work

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This is a tip that I cannot say will work great. I just came up with it as I do this sometimes.

This one seems good though so I have to share it with you. This could work for you or against you and I will definitely field test this and report its results.

When a girl ask you what you do for work, you tell her (with a big grin of course) that you search for special girls like her, but she is the first one you've found and then just be quiet. See what she says in return.

I just hate answering what I do because we make tons of dough and ITS MY DOUGH! :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Originally posted by NewMan
Sorry not something for me.
And what makes you feel that way?

Is it because you don't have the confidence in yourself to steer the convo back onto her and dodge the work question?

Or is it because you are just more serious and don't see something so silly working?
 

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i agree..not for me...

A. Girls never ask what I do for work.
B. Seems corny and AFC to me.
C. If the conversation gets to what you do for work, it's time to leave. The convos getting boring.
D. You'll leave her with the impression of "Great, another guy who tries a corny compliment about me being "special" just to try to get in my pants, wow."

No offense. Thats just my take on this.
 

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I like it..

I like it..Pro said to do it with a big grin on your face, so the key must be not to make it sound serious. Haha that could be pretty humorous actually. I'll definantly give this one a shot :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I would not use it because it's cheesey.

It's as bad as some of those god awful pick-up lines.

AFC's use that kind of stuff on girls.

Plus your putting the power into her hands - your telling her that you think she's special.

If it works for you - great. But I think it's a cheesey line.
 

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How about you field test BEFORE you post this stuff, then we'll see who its for.
 

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i just quit my job, actually today is my last day, since im fleeing the scene and cruising into the sunset in 2 weeks.
 

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Saying that she's very special is like saying: I adore you, you are waaay above me and I can't believe you're sitting here with ME!

You know what? They will actually know that that's what you're saying, and worse... they will begin to act accordingly too.

Do NOT say such a thing, ever... you are soooo pushing her away from you when you do (sounds weird, but trust me it IS true).
 

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If you say it in like a mocking poetic voice, it could be humorous. Eh I find humor in it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Creepy...

*shakes head*

"I'm an Adult Film Recruiter" would even be preferable. That at least answers the question, "I search for special girls..." does not...

Try it on ten women tonight and see what happens
 

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Originally posted by MidwestFreek
iA. Girls never ask what I do for work.
Haha, you're 15 bro, not many girls care what you do for a living yet. :D

And to all the people that say "omg, thats so cheesy, you're an afc", field test it first, then come back and tell us if it worked or not, with your opinion on how to make it work better, if at all.
 

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WOW this post is SOOOOooooooooooooooOOOOOOoooooooooooooooooooooOOOOooooooooooo gay.

What a terrible and stupid tip. So ur tip is basically a one-line compliment
WoW great thinking!

What ur doing is kissing her feet which will definitely seperate you from all the other lame ass afc guys out there.

The trick is to play hard to get.

Way to many f--king afcs onthis board. Way too many.
 

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Well your welcome for anyone that didn't find this some bull**** and to the others well I don't know... hehe

I know I get girls and I know you shouldn't put them on a pedestal and all that, I mean I have been a member for like 3 years.

I was great at getting chicks before I came to this board, but I got way better with this board.

This is no afc stuff.

I wouldn't even be answering this question if I didn't already have the chick in my clutches already So I know I'm doing right.

Was just trying to help a little and you should always take what you hear on this board with a grain of salt.

Your supposed to just use what works for you.

Keep on dj'in guys.

BTW: some of you guys might need to toss a girl one compliment once in a while, I mean don't let it get to their head, but to tell your lady shes looking good or you like her food or dress or smile or something won't kill you and it can go a ways...
 

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Just thought I'd throw this out to all you people who are all up in his face about putting up such a big compliment.

The key word was "special" there. It could go a number of ways.

The way I took it the first time was as in "special education" or in other words, retarded. Or you could turn it into, shes unique in that you've never met anyone else with that unique blend of looks, ignorance and niavety.

It could go a number of ways, it all depends on the delivery and the deliverer.

Rhino
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A stripper asked me that the other night. I told her I was the employee of the month at Taco Bell and then I asked her what she wanted to be when she grows up.

She talked to me for a solid hour after that.

When you down play yourself to the point that its a joke it sets up the whole relationship where youre so confidant in yourself that your the selector and they are the ones that are having to win your approval. When you say that your "Looking for special girls like you" youre trying to win their approval and you look like just another loser guy with a hard on trying to get in their pants.
 
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