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what yall think of these shows for clubbing/casual

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i thought u guys knew about good clothing. i dont have much idea at all can i get some advice on shoes
 

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in my opinion, they look like over priced basketball shoes.
i have bought cars cheaper than these shoes.
 

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Alexander III said:
i thought u guys knew about good clothing. i dont have much idea at all can i get some advice on shoes
Depends on your taste and the rest of your outfit. You'll look like a tool when you wear those with a suit for example.

For casual wear, they might be ok for some people although those are not my taste (what's up with the stupidly large Puma logo)
 

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penkitten said:
in my opinion, they look like over priced basketball shoes.
i have bought cars cheaper than these shoes.
these are overpriced? 50USD? they would be about 80USD from a retail store in New Zealand almost all decent shoes are. skate shoes like aido are nearly all over 80USD
 

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BLebowski said:
Depends on your taste and the rest of your outfit. You'll look like a tool when you wear those with a suit for example.

For casual wear, they might be ok for some people although those are not my taste (what's up with the stupidly large Puma logo)
what type of shoes you wear. i dont even own a suit im in highschool.
 

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That was the point of my reply...whether the shoes are fine, depends on other things too. If you're younger and wear a more casual outfit (jeans, shirt etc), these shoes are fine.

Since I'm a suit man, I usually wear dress shoes or casuals for the days I'm in a jeans.
 

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don't wear these to a club... they are good shoes for going to the movies, or walking aruond the mall but if your clubbin you should be wearing black shoes, they don't necessarily have to be dress shoes tho.
 

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Alexander III said:
these are overpriced? 50USD? they would be about 80USD from a retail store in New Zealand almost all decent shoes are. skate shoes like aido are nearly all over 80USD
under the description it said 250 bucks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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