"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what yall think of these shows for clubbing/casual

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i thought u guys knew about good clothing. i dont have much idea at all can i get some advice on shoes
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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in my opinion, they look like over priced basketball shoes.
i have bought cars cheaper than these shoes.
 

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Alexander III said:
i thought u guys knew about good clothing. i dont have much idea at all can i get some advice on shoes
Depends on your taste and the rest of your outfit. You'll look like a tool when you wear those with a suit for example.

For casual wear, they might be ok for some people although those are not my taste (what's up with the stupidly large Puma logo)
 

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penkitten said:
in my opinion, they look like over priced basketball shoes.
i have bought cars cheaper than these shoes.
these are overpriced? 50USD? they would be about 80USD from a retail store in New Zealand almost all decent shoes are. skate shoes like aido are nearly all over 80USD
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BLebowski said:
Depends on your taste and the rest of your outfit. You'll look like a tool when you wear those with a suit for example.

For casual wear, they might be ok for some people although those are not my taste (what's up with the stupidly large Puma logo)
what type of shoes you wear. i dont even own a suit im in highschool.
 

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That was the point of my reply...whether the shoes are fine, depends on other things too. If you're younger and wear a more casual outfit (jeans, shirt etc), these shoes are fine.

Since I'm a suit man, I usually wear dress shoes or casuals for the days I'm in a jeans.
 

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don't wear these to a club... they are good shoes for going to the movies, or walking aruond the mall but if your clubbin you should be wearing black shoes, they don't necessarily have to be dress shoes tho.
 

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Alexander III said:
these are overpriced? 50USD? they would be about 80USD from a retail store in New Zealand almost all decent shoes are. skate shoes like aido are nearly all over 80USD
under the description it said 250 bucks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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