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What would you write if you were leaving?

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I am planning to be out of the country for a month this august. I was wondering what I should say to my girlfriend if I am going to write her a farewell letter. I do not want the letter to sound AFC or desperate, but would make it so she doesn't forget about me and whatnot. Any ideas don juans?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Letter!? Say goodbye in person, only.

Write her a postcard when you get there.
 
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come on now. you can't be THAT forgettable that she won't remember about you in a month. jokes of course.

i agree with phizzy phyz, just send her a postcard or two. something about 'farewell letter' sounds a little weird but that's just me.
 
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good idea, but i think a postcard will take a long time to get there. I'm going to be on the other side of the world, so it might take a while.
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I'm in New Zealand, just got a postcard from Maine today (odd coinicence). Took 10 days.
 

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