"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What would you write if you were leaving?

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I am planning to be out of the country for a month this august. I was wondering what I should say to my girlfriend if I am going to write her a farewell letter. I do not want the letter to sound AFC or desperate, but would make it so she doesn't forget about me and whatnot. Any ideas don juans?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Letter!? Say goodbye in person, only.

Write her a postcard when you get there.
 
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come on now. you can't be THAT forgettable that she won't remember about you in a month. jokes of course.

i agree with phizzy phyz, just send her a postcard or two. something about 'farewell letter' sounds a little weird but that's just me.
 
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good idea, but i think a postcard will take a long time to get there. I'm going to be on the other side of the world, so it might take a while.
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I'm in New Zealand, just got a postcard from Maine today (odd coinicence). Took 10 days.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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