"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what would you say?

Trapper

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i met two chicks (one of them is asian) a week ago...i drove them crazy by using all techniques..Yesterday, they invited me at their house.. we had a great time together and fun as well..we were on the topic,talking threesome, and all of a sudden asian girl asked to me: "do you have enough energy?" i said do you wanna see?

what would you say in that situation?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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KillaCam

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Good answer.

An optional answer is no answer at all. Grab their hands, to the bedroom, and pound it.
 

blinkwatt

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Trapper said:
asian girl asked to me: "do you have enough energy?" i said do you wanna see?

what would you say in that situation?
Good answer,what was her response?

Me knowing the way I'am it would go like this;
her"do you have enough energy?"
me"Me,don't worry about me. Its just a matter of wether or not your ready for the time of your life" (& wink)

or

me"Yeah I have more then enough. But the real question is whether or not your ready to ride this rollercoaster."
 

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Instead of focusing on that, give us a full field report. I doubt the answer to that question determined the fate of your potential threesome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Were u at her house? I would've said with a a slight serious tone "babe you're ****ing with the wrong person." and straight cave man style her.
 
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