"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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what would you say?

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i met two chicks (one of them is asian) a week ago...i drove them crazy by using all techniques..Yesterday, they invited me at their house.. we had a great time together and fun as well..we were on the topic,talking threesome, and all of a sudden asian girl asked to me: "do you have enough energy?" i said do you wanna see?

what would you say in that situation?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Good answer.

An optional answer is no answer at all. Grab their hands, to the bedroom, and pound it.
 
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Trapper said:
asian girl asked to me: "do you have enough energy?" i said do you wanna see?

what would you say in that situation?
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Good answer,what was her response?

Me knowing the way I'am it would go like this;
her"do you have enough energy?"
me"Me,don't worry about me. Its just a matter of wether or not your ready for the time of your life" (& wink)

or

me"Yeah I have more then enough. But the real question is whether or not your ready to ride this rollercoaster."
 
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Instead of focusing on that, give us a full field report. I doubt the answer to that question determined the fate of your potential threesome.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Were u at her house? I would've said with a a slight serious tone "babe you're ****ing with the wrong person." and straight cave man style her.
 
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