what would you say is the biggest obstacle for sexuality?

[moneyisking]

Some times I wish that I rather had the balls to sexually harass women than just sitting around like a d!ckhead. I want to talk about something we all have problems with: Sexuality

Have you walked down the street and you saw two super hot girls walking towards you from opposite direction, and you felt different than you would've felt if it were two sausage swinging dudes?

I had a girl shake my hand and we held hands longer than usual, normal hand shake and somehow it did not feel very comforting to my skin. Another girl called me sweetheart and it felt like what the fvck barbecue; why the hell does my mind feel weird by that?

I ask how do I become complete in my sexuality, and I get stuck. I know in my head: the kino, sexual innuendo, sexual escalation, naughty jokes, intense eye contact, asking for numbers, being a C&F badboy, not giving a dam, etc etc. I mean, how do you become sexual when you know everything what to do in your head, but you simply just can't fvcking do it? Is this how fat people feel like when they can't lose weight?

This is why our mind is so complicated; we know the truth yet we can't do it? how crazy is that? I am definitely not looking for an answer that can shift my belief into somehow being sexual by this one thread. But I am looking for what is in MY life that is blocking me from being completely sexual and free, and how to slowly progress towards it. So, what do you think is the biggest obstacle... so big (that's what she said) that it deters you from sexuality even when you already know what to do?

 

[cola]

I guess it gets more natural the more you do it. In middle school/high school we used to feel girls butts and go down their blouse.. Play little sexual games like hide and go hump..

Just transfered to adulthood. So if you missed that stage I guess you got to go thru it now.

Would you rather be the creep who touched her boob or the nice guy who never knew if she would let you?

If your with a girl push the limits.
Touch her shoulder
If she lets you touch her shoulder touch her waste
Waste no rejection? Touch her thigh.
Thigh no biggie touch her ass.
Green light on ass.. Boobs.
«««GO FOR THE *****»»»

 

[Black Dog]

I mean, how do you become sexual when you know everything what to do in your head, but you simply just can't fvcking do it? Is this how fat people feel like when they can't lose weight?
?

I guess you have to just live outside your head...I like to imagine that I don't even control my actions sometimes, and that I merely witness them. Like I'm being puppeteered by my own confidence; I don't concern myself with other people's thoughts or feelings unless there's something in it for me...like if I will feel good for complimenting someone, I'll selfishly be nice to them. Most of the time I joke around with others.

Like I said it's a real trip to live outside your head, it's similar to watching an awesome movie, where the main character is your badass self....I feel like I only take the wheel sometimes and the rest of the time my head takes care of the rest


Also don't give out advice when high