You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
It's an aggressive, dominant, the wolf is staring down his prey statement...if it fits your personality it could lead you down an easy path...Seems like it can work well, but why ruin the anticipation? I would rather make her feel like she's the one seducing me
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Gotcha.. I'll give it a shot, why not haha.It's an aggressive, dominant, the wolf is staring down his prey statement...if it fits your personality it could lead you down an easy path...
i can work well with thisTry that line next time you are messaging/texting a chick prior to your first meetup...I think you'll like the results.
You can thank me later.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yea, but if you already have a reputation as a direct/dominant guy in your social circle, you would be surprised how much p5ssy you can snag by acting indirect.whats that? Being dominant, direct, and not giving a flying **** works? It's like we just discovered fire here guyz! Also, will try and report results.
Yes, it is most impressive live but using it via text before meeting basically let's her know what's going to happen and if she ends up meeting anyway 90% of the work is already done for you. She will be pretty compliant in most cases, and is expecting it ahead of time so there is little to no resistance since she's effectively already agreed to it by being there.When we had the nightclub my ex and I knew several men who routinely could sell this line live and in person. To some really hot women. They had conviction and were totally unapologetic. It's all in the delivery.
I think its most impressive live, especially when the woman is NOT expecting it. You have just set the frame that it IS about sex, you choose HER, and its ON.
Of course they do. I want to know they aren't going to be intimidated before I waste my time.Not my style, personally.
Women know what "come by <date> at <time>" means. They just instinctively know these things.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Few women these days are...and it's directly linked to the drastic decline in testosterone in males.The reason this boldness works is because she's not used to confident men.
She's used to guys sucking her toes, telling her how pretty she is, and buying her drinks.
Here is an actual example of how this works in texting:
Her: I'm pretty blunt and straight forward which can sometimes pop other people's bubbles that they live in
Me too I'm way to busy for drama lol
Me:I'm very blunt and direct also. To the degree that I'll let you know I plan on seducing you when we meet so you have the opportunity to walk away if that's too intimidating for you NAME
Her: I like that and I'm not shy of ending up in bed the first day I meet someone... I love a dominant man
Her: I'd rather a guy be honest about his intentions than lie...honesty goes a long way with me...
Me: Good I'm not shy either. Game on, so make sure you bring your A game, because I'll have mine. . Most women respond well to directness even if they don't verbalize it, but most guys aren't confident enough in themselves to be that way. Timid always loses I've found.
Her: Very true because I know I definitely dont care for the timid types.. I need someone who will keep me on my toes lol
Me: I will both keep you on your toes and curling your toes
Her: I really like the sound of that...
Stop Bullsh!tting and aggressively go for what you want. You'll be surprised how often you'll get it and how much easier it will make your ability to get laid when you both know the score upfront before meeting.
In this case, we met, basically were all over each other from the word go and barely made it back to her place before going at it in every possible position for 3 hours...deep throat, anal, hard rough sex, 3 loads down her throat...all from being upfront and risking her being offended before hand. We ended up fvcking like rabbits for a few months before she ended up moving across country...I've thought about reaching out to her a few times to be honest, lol
Seriously. I was walking by a Starbucks the other day and I saw a group of girls with a few guys, the guys were all yelling and gossiping like little girls. Dressed in skinny jeans and tight shirts, I don't get it. Wtf is the world coming to?Few women these days are...and it's directly linked to the drastic decline in testosterone in males.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.