"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What would you guess her hip to waist ratio to be?
- Thread starter speakeasy
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
MikeBrown30
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How did you get that picture speakeasy? Looks like you took it while following her into her apartment for some action...
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
Does she have her own zip code?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Scar Tissue
Don Juan
She legitly looks like a hippo from the back...
Powerlifter
Senior Don Juan
Dam! I told BigJumbo to stay home.
Powerlifter
Powerlifter
kingsam
Master Don Juan
well the fatties Do appreciate it more than a normal girl !MikeBrown30 said:
While I agree that picture is rather ridiculous and the girl should be shot down, let us remember that behind closed doors, girls are doing the same thing with *loser* guys
Guys with no money, or game, or status, are the complete laughing stock of girls
Guys with no money, or game, or status, are the complete laughing stock of girls
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ChalengeGuyFan
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Cow indeed 
What's interesting though is on second look, she actually has a good hip to waist RATIO. The problem is there's just too much hip and too much waist! But the ratio is actually good. You can tell by the way the fat is distributed on her body that if she were a thin woman, she'd have a very good shape. What a waste.