"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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_XT_

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Now I got a cell phone number from a girl a few weeks back, and everytime I call I get the answer phone, so I leave a message. So she replies a week later with a text message saying her excuse and sorry. Fair enough the first time, but I get this the 2nd & 3rd time too this time her reasons were busy with friends or sick. So after this I text her (yeah lame I know) - Howcome whenever I call I just get the answer phone? Whats the deal? Her response to that was just the same excuse as before.
Obviously her interest in me isn't up there so I've already nexted her. Why girls can't return a call with a call I don't know.

This isn't the first girl I've met who acts this way.

What would some of you other DJs do in this situation? To get her interest and get a date.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WaterTiger

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I think you'd have better luck getting another number. If she doesn't offer a date after 3 calls, I don't think she has any interest.
 

RedKnight04

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Follow these simple steps.

1) Walk out of your house.

2) Go into your car.

3) Drive to the mall or some stores.

4) See if anything catchs your eye.

5) Use a good line I got from a buddy of mine...(Grab a bra) Go up to the target.

Say: "Do you think this makes me look fat?"

She should laugh. Or else she is ABSOLUTELY too full of herself.

6) Ask her for her name.

7) Tell her you know another girl by that name and it sounds familar. She'll be like - "Really? I don't know you bla bla."

Then say "OH! You were that girl checking out my bodacious bod at school aren't you? (If you don't go to school improvise- I can't hold your hand you know!)

(Say this next line while you rub the back of your hair like your all that!) I know its irresistable, but come on now lady, I'm a human being too!"

This will blow into fluff talk or a huge laugh.

For sure I am about 100% sure she will ask what school you go too so fluff talk gets intiated.

Try this on about 15 girls for a start.

Good luck
 

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I think your problem lies in the fact that you haven't sufficiently raised her IL during your first meeting.

Its great to get a chicks phone number but many will give out fake numbers, cell numbers just to be "nice". They may give you their number with absolutely no intention of ever seeing you again. Think about it. If a chick was truly interested why wouldn't she give you her home phone number?

Try putting a bit more effort and time into raising her IL before you ask for a number.
 

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Originally posted by Slickster
I think your problem lies in the fact that you haven't sufficiently raised her IL during your first meeting.

Its great to get a chicks phone number but many will give out fake numbers, cell numbers just to be "nice". They may give you their number with absolutely no intention of ever seeing you again. Think about it. If a chick was truly interested why wouldn't she give you her home phone number?

Try putting a bit more effort and time into raising her IL before you ask for a number.
Yeah I figured that her interest is gone, at the the time her interest level was high she wanted to meet up for a date - she asked for my number too so I told her she would get mine when I called her. But like I said I only get the answer phone like her phone is always off. My guess is that some other guy has got her interest.


Redknight04, I like the bra idea :D
This girl was from one of my mall approaches.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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