"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What would you do?

mystic03

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I met this chick like 10 days ago at a club, I got her number but didn't call her because I got very sick with the flu, now 10 days later is when I'm feeling well. I am planning to call her, what should I say? that I've been too busy, too sick or what? since I don't know if I will hit it off with her I don't want her to get the impression that I'm a liar.

Suggestions are welcome.....
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Knicknack

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10 days is a long time. you gotta understand that attraction can fade quickly. you don't need any excuse for why you haven't called. she won't even ask you. call her up and tell her you are the guy she was hittin on at the club. if she doesn't remember, your chances of gettin a date and slim and fvckin none.

good luck. you'll need it.
 

InLawsHateMe

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I would.....

...invite her to go New Years Eve party hopping.... that's easy enough. *shrugs* ...and get her drunk off Hpnotiq! 8)
 

Cassidy

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What should you say? What reason do you have for you to tell her anything but the truth? Dammit...

You got sick. Big deal. She gets sick sometimes. If she asks (which she most probably won't) tell her you got sick. Otherwise, say nothing about it. She won't think any less of you if you get sick. Unless your real name is Clark Kent and she is aware of your true identity.

Call her and ask her out on a date. If she remembers you, you're in luck. If you lie, then it will give her the impression that you're a liar. Obviously.
 

Big Pappy

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You got sick. So, call her and ask her out. If she doesn't remember you, refresh her memory. If you must, explain to her that you were unable to talk before.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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