what would you do if a girl asked YOU out on a date to go to a movie instead of vice versa? would you be scared off? like if she was REALLY hot and that was unusually common to you? This is hypothetical of course but please elaborate ya'll!!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
what would you do?
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Dust 2 Dust
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If she asks you out then go. Shes testing your IL. If you blow her off she might think your not interested and shell stop pursuing you.
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WHY IN THE WORLD WOULD YOU BE SCARED OFF? Like do you think she'll make a project out of your Pen** or use it for her "C*cky Broth Soup" ?
I wouldn't be scared. I would be flattered of course ! But beware! Really hot girls need A LOT of attention and need to be constantly challenged. It's rare to find one that will be content with things.
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I would go out with her if she asked. There has to be some IL from her. Is she a hot girl that needs attention all the time, or is she a hot girl that doesnt get enough attention cause guys are scared to approach her. Whatever you do, be a man and show her who's boss.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Do you want to go? Then go.
*CAUTION*
The general advice given so far is to go. I would agree, if not for a past situation last year in highschool.
HB and me always flirted etc...on friday we were in the cafeteria, flirting like usual, and she asked if I wanted to goto the show that weekend with her. Of course, this was before I found this site, I was AFC, so I said sure and that I'd call her Sat during the day to set up the date.
I call during the day, and shes "sick" and cant go. She doesnt bother to reschedule, or feel bad or anything.
I figure she was turned off by my lack of challenge. Ive always been mysterious and challenging with her naturally (neg hits..etc...) but agreeing to the date on such short notice made me lose that. So my advice is, go, but dont be too availible.
Just thought I'd share that with y'all.
The general advice given so far is to go. I would agree, if not for a past situation last year in highschool.
HB and me always flirted etc...on friday we were in the cafeteria, flirting like usual, and she asked if I wanted to goto the show that weekend with her. Of course, this was before I found this site, I was AFC, so I said sure and that I'd call her Sat during the day to set up the date.
I call during the day, and shes "sick" and cant go. She doesnt bother to reschedule, or feel bad or anything.
I figure she was turned off by my lack of challenge. Ive always been mysterious and challenging with her naturally (neg hits..etc...) but agreeing to the date on such short notice made me lose that. So my advice is, go, but dont be too availible.
Just thought I'd share that with y'all.
squirrels
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If it was a sh*tty game, yeah probably.Originally posted by Eileen
I'm calling BS. You'd go see Bambi during Monday Night Football if the chick was hot enough
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.