So here's the dilemma
Been dating HB9 now for around 4 months - from what I've ascertained so far, minimal red flags, very high IL, great sex and displays great affection (Also in terms of how she treats others, family etc) she makes it very clear how she views me within the RS.
This is the issue, I kind of jumped in with this girl following a long term break up, didn't really work on myself following it (HB9 would initially hook up with me as a friend and we would go out and do things together etc with no thought from my side of becoming romantic)
I think this is affecting my investment level towards her as I've still got some unresolved emotions.
I know first hand I would be SILLY to push away this person given how she treats me, and how supportive she is in terms of career, gym etc etc, my friend group and family also echo that statement, my own parents: "Shes done more for you in 4 months than any of your previous girlfriends"
And I have to say that is true.
She has recently brought up the exclusive talk- holiday talk etc etc - I don't want to be the guy that hurts anyone so I'm reluctant to dive straight in.
How would you approach this one DJ's?
Thanks in advance
Been dating HB9 now for around 4 months - from what I've ascertained so far, minimal red flags, very high IL, great sex and displays great affection (Also in terms of how she treats others, family etc) she makes it very clear how she views me within the RS.
This is the issue, I kind of jumped in with this girl following a long term break up, didn't really work on myself following it (HB9 would initially hook up with me as a friend and we would go out and do things together etc with no thought from my side of becoming romantic)
I think this is affecting my investment level towards her as I've still got some unresolved emotions.
I know first hand I would be SILLY to push away this person given how she treats me, and how supportive she is in terms of career, gym etc etc, my friend group and family also echo that statement, my own parents: "Shes done more for you in 4 months than any of your previous girlfriends"
And I have to say that is true.
She has recently brought up the exclusive talk- holiday talk etc etc - I don't want to be the guy that hurts anyone so I'm reluctant to dive straight in.
How would you approach this one DJ's?
Thanks in advance