"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What would you do?
- Thread starter Falcon25
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
OamImrsNemo
Don Juan
From the sounds of it you are just her emotional tampon. Of course she calls you like clock work who else will listen to her nonsense bull****? Nobody! no why? Because when those army guys go out in uniform they are getting there covk sucked left and right so they do not give two flying fvcks about what she has to complain about. They don't need to game her pvssy.
Now why would you even bother wasting your time with an LDR when there is so much pvssy surrounding you. Phone sex will be all you get from her when she is in Iraq while she is probably getting some covk from some random person.
Man for your sanity's sake. This forum is about helping eachother please bro take my advice. Take a look around this forum and look at how many LDR's worked. Most those that did not even work to begin with had high interest and were started in person. You here are trying to start one without any form of kino or building some sort of a connection except for through a phone wire.
Save yourself alot of heart ache and time and just be friends with her and get your dvck wet some where else.
Good luck
I totally understand, this is not going to stop me from getting laid elsewhere. But this is a girl I would like to hook up with cause she is hot. She never talks about her problems to me, if she did, I would hang up. We only talk about things we have in common. I know this is a long shot. I know she's probably getting pumped by army dudes and I don't expect anything to come out of this. But then again, sometimes you just think, damn, I have to meet this girl to see who she is. Maybe I'm crazy but fuvk man, this girl is fuvking hot.
OamImrsNemo
Don Juan
Otherwise If this was me I would get her over to me. Too many things I can see going wrong going over to her but I have not built up the connection with her you have.
Why can't she come visit you?
Worst case scenario you both never meet in person but now you have to realize how you can get those really hot bvtches that most men only dream of. So use that to get the confidence to get those hb 10's
Good luck
5string
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
1) The whole long distance thing is horsesh1t. I wouldn't do it with a chick I've been with LTR, I wouldn't establish it with a chick I just met.
2) You're hung up on a chick who you've never even met. You saw A picture, and you talked over e-mail. That's it. You don't really know how this person truly is (or if that picture is even recent).
You're being waaaay too clingy without having so much as kissed her. Dump this sh1t before its too late.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
kingsam
Master Don Juan
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You are 3000 miles from her, why even bother.... and other issues too, she’s in the forces you are not (seems an issue for you) and u talk to her too much, but the 3k mile is the biggie...
About an hour away should be the approximate maximum distance (with exceptions) especially with women you’ve never met!
that’s one long expensive commute for a bit of Pu££y
the way you bang on about how important looks and money are I always thought you were a bit clueless and now my suspicions have been confirmed!
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
I'll be god damn.kingsam said:
Falcon, why can't she come and see you? Aren't you the prize? Date other women. Make yourself richer.
You need to do more real world approaches and for online, you need to stay local. Where on the west coast are you anyway?
ummmmmmmmmm, I never said I was. I just said that if I were, I would get any girl I wanted. Reading comprehension skills are important, I suggest you take some community college classes. Never in my posts do I say I am rich or great looking. Never.kingsam said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Isn't it better to take that 400 and use it on women nearby that you are more likely to have a better chance at.
I wish I could find the thread, but there was a thread about a guy here who flew to see a girl and spend a weekend with her and it turned into a DISASTER. Not only did it go badly, but he never even got laid and blew away a chunk of money on a woman who had promised him the world and ended up giving him nothing.
For the price of this one military honey, you could probably game about 20 more.
Get her to come to you, or else, this really isn't worth all the trouble.