"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What would you do?
- Thread starter Falcon25
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
OamImrsNemo
Don Juan
From the sounds of it you are just her emotional tampon. Of course she calls you like clock work who else will listen to her nonsense bull****? Nobody! no why? Because when those army guys go out in uniform they are getting there covk sucked left and right so they do not give two flying fvcks about what she has to complain about. They don't need to game her pvssy.
Now why would you even bother wasting your time with an LDR when there is so much pvssy surrounding you. Phone sex will be all you get from her when she is in Iraq while she is probably getting some covk from some random person.
Man for your sanity's sake. This forum is about helping eachother please bro take my advice. Take a look around this forum and look at how many LDR's worked. Most those that did not even work to begin with had high interest and were started in person. You here are trying to start one without any form of kino or building some sort of a connection except for through a phone wire.
Save yourself alot of heart ache and time and just be friends with her and get your dvck wet some where else.
Good luck
I totally understand, this is not going to stop me from getting laid elsewhere. But this is a girl I would like to hook up with cause she is hot. She never talks about her problems to me, if she did, I would hang up. We only talk about things we have in common. I know this is a long shot. I know she's probably getting pumped by army dudes and I don't expect anything to come out of this. But then again, sometimes you just think, damn, I have to meet this girl to see who she is. Maybe I'm crazy but fuvk man, this girl is fuvking hot.
OamImrsNemo
Don Juan
Otherwise If this was me I would get her over to me. Too many things I can see going wrong going over to her but I have not built up the connection with her you have.
Why can't she come visit you?
Worst case scenario you both never meet in person but now you have to realize how you can get those really hot bvtches that most men only dream of. So use that to get the confidence to get those hb 10's
Good luck
5string
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
1) The whole long distance thing is horsesh1t. I wouldn't do it with a chick I've been with LTR, I wouldn't establish it with a chick I just met.
2) You're hung up on a chick who you've never even met. You saw A picture, and you talked over e-mail. That's it. You don't really know how this person truly is (or if that picture is even recent).
You're being waaaay too clingy without having so much as kissed her. Dump this sh1t before its too late.
TheBucketOfTruth
Master Don Juan
kingsam
Master Don Juan
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You are 3000 miles from her, why even bother.... and other issues too, she’s in the forces you are not (seems an issue for you) and u talk to her too much, but the 3k mile is the biggie...
About an hour away should be the approximate maximum distance (with exceptions) especially with women you’ve never met!
that’s one long expensive commute for a bit of Pu££y
the way you bang on about how important looks and money are I always thought you were a bit clueless and now my suspicions have been confirmed!
Megaman XIV
Senior Don Juan
I'll be god damn.kingsam said:
Falcon, why can't she come and see you? Aren't you the prize? Date other women. Make yourself richer.
You need to do more real world approaches and for online, you need to stay local. Where on the west coast are you anyway?
ummmmmmmmmm, I never said I was. I just said that if I were, I would get any girl I wanted. Reading comprehension skills are important, I suggest you take some community college classes. Never in my posts do I say I am rich or great looking. Never.kingsam said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Isn't it better to take that 400 and use it on women nearby that you are more likely to have a better chance at.
I wish I could find the thread, but there was a thread about a guy here who flew to see a girl and spend a weekend with her and it turned into a DISASTER. Not only did it go badly, but he never even got laid and blew away a chunk of money on a woman who had promised him the world and ended up giving him nothing.
For the price of this one military honey, you could probably game about 20 more.
Get her to come to you, or else, this really isn't worth all the trouble.