"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What would you do?

blinkwatt

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A couple of friends of mine are going out at work,ones a good friend and I know his girlfreind,not as good of friends as we are though. He talks to her about getting married and such I think they are starting to get seriuos since she is almost 18(Yes,I know, they are stupid). The problem I have is he is an idiot,he says he wants to marry her and then we(he and I) go out and we end up at other chicks houses(we didnt nail them though,they backed out). He was talking about how he wanted to nail them on the way there and such. Here is were I'm stuck, he is semi-abusive at times to her,he has told me how when they have an argument and he doesnt get his way he will yank her by her shirt and not let her leave. I tell him that he should get his priorities straight,he wants to marry a cute,nice,smart and funny girl,but yet he out hitting on skanks non-stop. He always wants me to talk to women with him as his wing man,but I no longer want to. I'am starting to feel bad for his girlfriend(my friend) and people are starting to catch on as he was caught fooling around with another chick at work. What would you do? Say nothing(I havent even hinted to his girlfriend)? People who know him are starting to come up and ask me questions(They are catching on),do I let them know the truth? I cant let this chick get hurt BAD,as in get married to this moron. I'm not going to try and hit on this chick or anything,its just sad because he is her first boyfriend.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Don't get involved in other people's problems.

If you don't like the way your friend is acting then don't be his friend - thats the only choice you should be deciding.
 

blinkwatt

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flexion_ said:
If you don't like the way your friend is acting then don't be his friend - thats the only choice you should be deciding.
Thats the answer I'm looking for. Thanks!
 

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I would get involved.....

HE is being a d!ck. I would talk to her about it....If shes a friend you have to do what you feel is right.

Yes you may lose the other guy as a friend in the process but i doubt it. It sounds like he needs you more than you need him. I would step in.....

Tell her....if she chooses to ignore your advice at least you know you tried to tell her and its her problem. At least she will know all the facts.


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