parkthebus
Master Don Juan
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I haven't really got one to speak of. The only people I know just want to go out drinking.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
What would you do to build a social life from scratch?
- Thread starter parkthebus
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'd use a place called "city data forums", among others, to connect with people in your area.I'd go to meets of people who are "into "any sort of hobby that interests you and look around. I'd run a classified ad on craigslist and I'd check out any ads any there that interested me. I'd go hang out at the college libraries, but also improve myself, gym, karate classes, dancing lessons, learn to play music, swim, surf, skateboard, off-road motorcycling. Race tracks are good places to meet women, maybe not YOUR kind of women, tho. Ball games, too
daddymonsterpoodle
Master Don Juan
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Have a life. Do stuff you are interested in and connect with other people who are interested in it. Shortcut: find a Texas hold'em league, dance class, yoga class or quiz night at your local bar, and take it from there.