"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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...one of your good friends *tells* you that he is going to try to take your gf away from you?

EDIT: Details on the situation at the bottom.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i would tell him to chill out before he gets himself hurt.
 

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realize he isn't a good of friend as I thought and stop hanging out with him
 

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Originally posted by Vulture
...one of your good friends *tells* you that he is going to try to take your gf away from you?
I would get new friends.

One thing that I have learned is that girls & GUYS should be treated similar in many cases. If a girl disrespects you - get rid of her. If a guy who is your friend croses the line in the friendship - get rid of him.


p.s. Provide some more details on your experience so that we can offer more precise and relevant opinions.
 

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yes we need more details. is this girl someone you care about or just some girl you F**K from time to time? how good of a friend is he? if he is a close friend maybe he feels like you have that kind of relationship. if he's just some dude you hang out with sometimes, i would either except the challenge or tell him you'll kick him in the mouth for disrespecting. ive been with hot girls that my friends wanted to F**K and i didnt care. but ive had friends tell me they would get with my girl if they could and i took it a different way. bros before hoes only applies if the girl is a hoe. so you decide.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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Since you guys want clarifications, here are the details.

I've been in a LTR with this girl for about 8 months. It's been a LDR for about 1 month. So, one of my good good friends somehow has her number. He talked to her from time to time, I let him. It's not like I'm insecure about it. So anyway, he becomes angry because I let him speak to her (talk about insecurity) and then he says: "I'm going to try to take your girl away from you". I still incouraged him and told him good luck at this point. But what really bothers me is that he would say something like this let alone think it. What a friend huh?
 
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