"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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...one of your good friends *tells* you that he is going to try to take your gf away from you?

EDIT: Details on the situation at the bottom.
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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i would tell him to chill out before he gets himself hurt.
 

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realize he isn't a good of friend as I thought and stop hanging out with him
 

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Originally posted by Vulture
...one of your good friends *tells* you that he is going to try to take your gf away from you?
I would get new friends.

One thing that I have learned is that girls & GUYS should be treated similar in many cases. If a girl disrespects you - get rid of her. If a guy who is your friend croses the line in the friendship - get rid of him.


p.s. Provide some more details on your experience so that we can offer more precise and relevant opinions.
 

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yes we need more details. is this girl someone you care about or just some girl you F**K from time to time? how good of a friend is he? if he is a close friend maybe he feels like you have that kind of relationship. if he's just some dude you hang out with sometimes, i would either except the challenge or tell him you'll kick him in the mouth for disrespecting. ive been with hot girls that my friends wanted to F**K and i didnt care. but ive had friends tell me they would get with my girl if they could and i took it a different way. bros before hoes only applies if the girl is a hoe. so you decide.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Since you guys want clarifications, here are the details.

I've been in a LTR with this girl for about 8 months. It's been a LDR for about 1 month. So, one of my good good friends somehow has her number. He talked to her from time to time, I let him. It's not like I'm insecure about it. So anyway, he becomes angry because I let him speak to her (talk about insecurity) and then he says: "I'm going to try to take your girl away from you". I still incouraged him and told him good luck at this point. But what really bothers me is that he would say something like this let alone think it. What a friend huh?
 
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