"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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piranha45

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who said anything about that. i think it still accounts for something, at the very least.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by piranha45
who said anything about that. i think it still accounts for something, at the very least.
That's the part you're not getting: if a study is not done propery it's not worth ANYTHING.
 

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if so, then explain why that casual observation provides no support for this casual argument, in this casual thread


noone here is a scientist and noone here is going to waste excessive amounts of time looking up evidence to support hard claims, and if you take any of the information on this forum seriously without hard scientific evidence, then you are either a hypocrite or completely lost on this forum network. being anal retentive on this sort of forum won't get you far.
 
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