"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What would you do if she was ugly?

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So I found myself slipping the other day & supplicating... chasing these three sister super hb's i met. The convo went flat and i left but something was bothering me and it didnt' come to me until 15 mins ago when i was sleeping.

WHY THE FVCK AM I CHASING THEM?!!

They've done nothing to prove themselves and then i realized what would I do if they were ugs? I'd probalby just ignore them and go about my business. So here I am - now just doing what I want.

On a side note: Am I the only one who notices that hb's always have their status on msn or something similar as "away".
Maybe i've just got ****ty luck :p -- Any suggestions on how to play this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What about:

"This is syncmaster's bot. Message me and I'll get back to you whenever I feel like it."

Not very inspired, though.
 
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yeah, they have their MSN thing on "away" because they want to appear busy and important. Same thing with cell phones.... part of the reason they are on them constantly is to show others how important they are :rolleyes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by pimpfromdayone
yeah, they have their MSN thing on "away" because they want to appear busy and important. Same thing with cell phones.... part of the reason they are on them constantly is to show others how important they are :rolleyes:
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yeah, and i'd like to add that i've had a few girls who, when i used to chat online often (but found it's a huge waste of time and energy anyway unless i'm talking to friends/family i don't see on a daily basis), they'd be away a lot, like you say...

...and i'd ask what they're doing, and they be doing stupid shit like watching a tv show...this one girl who led me to this site was always watching friends or seinfeld, and acted like she was "busy"

...and to answer the original post with my 2 cents...well, i stopped caring about how hot/ugly girls are a while ago...since then it's been all about "what can i get out of it" ...i don't waste my time or energy, and i've realized that she's no more special than the ugly girl with crooked teeth...in fact the only one we should be praising are the parents...and that's as long as the hot girl isn't also messed up in the head, like most very hot girls i've met

it's kind of like this poster i really like, that reads: "it's all about me, deal with it"

no one's perfect though, and i'm not either...so good question to remember for those dry spell times ;)
 
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