"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What would you do here?

soldier

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I had this girl that I was mostly friends with. We never had sex, but came close a couple of times. I got sick of wasting my time, so I mostly cut her off. I had my phone number changed (nothing to do with her, it was some other girl and she knew that), but I didn't give her the new number. I also stopped hanging out with her. I did continue to exchange email with her at first.
She of course didn't like losing my attention and she got pissed. She started sending me these bit-chi emails, so I told her to knock it off. Then her next email was even more out there, and I felt like I had enough of her she-ite. So I sent her something along the lines of "the only way you are going to get my attention now is if you act like a filthy, dirty ho-wore." !!!! I just wanted to be rid of her at this point and I assumed that type of message would do the trick. Well, it didn't...she has been emailing me 3-4x a week ever since. But the emails are not about sex, they are still angry type emails or innocuous type emails. For the most part I ignore them, but I got one a few days ago that said:
do you know anyone looking for weed?
I responded a couple of days later:
do you know anyone looking to suck de-ick?

That one got a rise out of her!!! Is it feigned anger or what? I can't figure it out.

Should I bother wasting more time with this brood? What should I do, get together with her and try putting the moves on her?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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That's why emails have a block list, Use it.
 

MisterD

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Even by giving her negative responses, they're responses nonetheless and thus feeding her ego. The only way to kill an ego is through apathy. Negative reactions are still reactions. I would ignore her if I really was done with her and there was no potential of hooking up.
 

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Well, I think there is potential...it's just- how much effort do I want to put in? Maybe I answered my own question, I'll give this one more shot. Two hangouts and then if it doesn't happen I pull the plug for good.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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