"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What would YOU do: #1

Dearl

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You meet a girl who you find very attractive. You break off some game and get her number. Several phone calls she is enjoying you and you too develop a relationship. Good relationship to remember when one forgettable day come when she calls you as if she was crying the whole day. She tries to speak to you normal but you can't help but to ask "whats wrong." She tells you do you remember this girl. (gives you a name.) You tell her "ya, she was my X." She sobs a little bit and tell you she is one of her closest cousins and she feel that she is losing her bond by keeping her x around the family. She doesn't want to end the relationship but feel like she has too because you know....blood is thicker then water lol.

What would the DJ's do???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ConantheLibertarian

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I'd say, "If you have to end it, then so be it. It was fun while it lasted though." See how quick the tune changes, or it might not. Either way, I'm not going to be held emotionally hostage by some chick who I'm not married to or seriously involved with.
 
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