"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What would YOU do: #1

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Dearl

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You meet a girl who you find very attractive. You break off some game and get her number. Several phone calls she is enjoying you and you too develop a relationship. Good relationship to remember when one forgettable day come when she calls you as if she was crying the whole day. She tries to speak to you normal but you can't help but to ask "whats wrong." She tells you do you remember this girl. (gives you a name.) You tell her "ya, she was my X." She sobs a little bit and tell you she is one of her closest cousins and she feel that she is losing her bond by keeping her x around the family. She doesn't want to end the relationship but feel like she has too because you know....blood is thicker then water lol.

What would the DJ's do???
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I'd say, "If you have to end it, then so be it. It was fun while it lasted though." See how quick the tune changes, or it might not. Either way, I'm not going to be held emotionally hostage by some chick who I'm not married to or seriously involved with.
 
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