"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dearl

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You meet a girl who you find very attractive. You break off some game and get her number. Several phone calls she is enjoying you and you too develop a relationship. Good relationship to remember when one forgettable day come when she calls you as if she was crying the whole day. She tries to speak to you normal but you can't help but to ask "whats wrong." She tells you do you remember this girl. (gives you a name.) You tell her "ya, she was my X." She sobs a little bit and tell you she is one of her closest cousins and she feel that she is losing her bond by keeping her x around the family. She doesn't want to end the relationship but feel like she has too because you know....blood is thicker then water lol.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ConantheLibertarian

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I'd say, "If you have to end it, then so be it. It was fun while it lasted though." See how quick the tune changes, or it might not. Either way, I'm not going to be held emotionally hostage by some chick who I'm not married to or seriously involved with.
 
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