What's up guys, names cola and I've been reading the forums for quite sometime but I have a question I really want to know the answer to. So ill use myself as an example.. I'm 6'1 and my weight fluctuates from 260 to 270 but I carry my weight acceptionally well I mean I could pass for 220ish .. I'm going to add I'm in acceptional health minus smoking ..I don't have a six pack that's for sure but i like my body the way it is.. I'm gentically hardwired to just be a bigger guy.. I look like I work out or worked out at some point but I didn't .. anyways I go through spells i noticed ill go through months where I'm banging 3 and then 3 or 4 months with nothin.. Is my size effecting my consistensy? Or do all guygs go through these spells I mean I talked to guys who I consider to be standouttishly attractive and heard of dryspells.. also if your a bigger guy like let's say.. linebacker type versus a long lean basketball type will you get less results.. and if your trying to picture how I look physiqur wise think of like a linebacker or d tackle
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What would you consider too large for the male phsysique to be successful
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Now I beg to differ.. I'm new here and I don't know you personally but your being unrealistic you can't say that your weight has little to do with your success because it has a lot to do with how you carry your weight.. I was blessed I have very broad shoulders and I'm long so my weight doesn't look sloppy but a 5'3 300 pound guy isn't getting a 21 year ols co ed .. atleast not where I'm from
Thats an extreme example. As long as you look normalish its true.cola said:
Yeah its how you carry the weight, its also what you wear too. Everything counts. Some less some more.
You believe that its your body composition that attracts women to you, and people in general then more power to you. Go do that.