"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What would you change about SoSuave?

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I'm finishing up development on a project I've been working on for the past year and a half, and seeing as how I like to keep myself busy with new programming projects, I'm considering making my next project a self-improvement website. This would be a bit like SoSuave, but the focus would be on self-improvement for males, instead of focusing on women. I feel that's one of SoSuave's biggest issues. It focuses too much on how to game women, instead of how to improve yourself.

The homepage would be akin to a blog, with articles and videos on everything related to self-improvement. There would of course be a forum, with the main difference being, there would only be one section dedicated to the discussion of game. This does not mean there would be one place for everything game. Just one main forum section, with a few subcategories for different things like field reports, tips, questions, etc.

So, with this said, what would you like to see on SoSuave 2.0 (obviously, not what I'm calling it)? What should remain the same? What would you change?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Less KJs, more FR/LR, better grammar, and no trolls

- comic_relief
 

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Sosuave is a vbulletin forum. Most web forums are. So when you see other similar web forums that are a little different, it's just their vbulletin settings. All of those changes should be easy to make.

The getting logged out thing is fairly new. After a few minutes of not clicking anything, like while writing a post, sosuave logs you out automatically. It's only been that way for a short time. I also get logged out automatically if I shut off my Internet connection. That is an even newer and more annoying feature Maybe it has to do with Google ads. Whatever I look at on Amazon will be my sosuave ads.

What's the best sosuave ad blocker for Firefox? I am trying to cut down on data usage, so I have an image blocking add-on. But I can still see it transferring the ad data back and forth; I'm not sure if it helps for data usage.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There should be an audio book for the DJ Bible so I can listen to it in the car and as I sleep at night.
 

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SeymourCake said:
There should be an audio book for the DJ Bible so I can listen to it in the car and as I sleep at night.
That's a good idea. The DJ Bible (DJB) is too long to read. Audio files of someone reading the key DJB posts would be a great resource. Keep the written posts, but maybe have downloadable audio files.

Off topic, I noticed that my IM mailbox storage has grown from 75 to 100. Thank you to whoever did that. I keep useful IMs in storage almost like printing out key posts. More IM storage is always appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Colossus said:
I'd change the mods. They suck so bad :cuss:
^This. :D I've been on other forums and some of the mods are too over bearing, nit picking little things. I like how this forum seems loose and relaxed, kind of like how I like my women.....hardy har hah. For a while I thought it was starting to shift in the other direction.

SeymourCake said:
There should be an audio book for the DJ Bible so I can listen to it in the car and as I sleep at night.
Only Seymour, lol. This is a good idea though. It would obviously take some time, and couldn't use all of the posts, but it could be done. SS could bundle it up and sell it. If the price was reasonable, I'd buy it.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Sosuave is a vbulletin forum. Most web forums are. So when you see other similar web forums that are a little different, it's just their vbulletin settings. All of those changes should be easy to make.

The getting logged out thing is fairly new. After a few minutes of not clicking anything, like while writing a post, sosuave logs you out automatically. It's only been that way for a short time. I also get logged out automatically if I shut off my Internet connection. That is an even newer and more annoying feature Maybe it has to do with Google ads. Whatever I look at on Amazon will be my sosuave ads.

What's the best sosuave ad blocker for Firefox? I am trying to cut down on data usage, so I have an image blocking add-on. But I can still see it transferring the ad data back and forth; I'm not sure if it helps for data usage.
Regarding the vbulletin thing: I know. Certain changes would be easy to make using vbulletin, but I'm thinking if I do this, it will be all custom. That way, I can make it exactly as I want. As for the logging out issues, I've noticed them. I don't post enough for it to bother me, though, I'll make sure it isn't an issue.
backseatjuan said:
interactive self improvement journal. pimp CB, where aspiring DJs talk live online with their fellow DJs
How exactly would a journal be interactive?
The CB (assuming you mean chatbox) is a good idea though.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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