I met this girl about an 8 while out on friday. She was a little drunk (not wasted) and i was on the buzz she randomly ruffled up my hair twice. I got talking to her and she gave me her number. I tried txting on sunday and she hasnt replied and its mid day monday. shall i ring her or just leave it? or try another txt?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
what would u do?
- Thread starter Modro
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
catch
Senior Don Juan
the first thing i learned about girls and dating is never txt her the first time you get in touch.. always call her...
and leave the call for a while too..
theres loads of fun things you can do when you make the first call too,
read sinor fingers weapons of mass seduction or just make up some stupid jokes.. my favourite is to just pretend your a sales man, looking to sell diformed monkeys from suadi arabia, or pretend your making an inquiery about the granny smiths apple she has for sale in the paper, loads of jokes like that...
but yeah youve gota call her..
and leave the call for a while too..
theres loads of fun things you can do when you make the first call too,
read sinor fingers weapons of mass seduction or just make up some stupid jokes.. my favourite is to just pretend your a sales man, looking to sell diformed monkeys from suadi arabia, or pretend your making an inquiery about the granny smiths apple she has for sale in the paper, loads of jokes like that...
but yeah youve gota call her..
