I met this girl about an 8 while out on friday. She was a little drunk (not wasted) and i was on the buzz she randomly ruffled up my hair twice. I got talking to her and she gave me her number. I tried txting on sunday and she hasnt replied and its mid day monday. shall i ring her or just leave it? or try another txt?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what would u do?
- Thread starter Modro
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
catch
Senior Don Juan
the first thing i learned about girls and dating is never txt her the first time you get in touch.. always call her...
and leave the call for a while too..
theres loads of fun things you can do when you make the first call too,
read sinor fingers weapons of mass seduction or just make up some stupid jokes.. my favourite is to just pretend your a sales man, looking to sell diformed monkeys from suadi arabia, or pretend your making an inquiery about the granny smiths apple she has for sale in the paper, loads of jokes like that...
but yeah youve gota call her..
and leave the call for a while too..
theres loads of fun things you can do when you make the first call too,
read sinor fingers weapons of mass seduction or just make up some stupid jokes.. my favourite is to just pretend your a sales man, looking to sell diformed monkeys from suadi arabia, or pretend your making an inquiery about the granny smiths apple she has for sale in the paper, loads of jokes like that...
but yeah youve gota call her..
