I met this girl about an 8 while out on friday. She was a little drunk (not wasted) and i was on the buzz she randomly ruffled up my hair twice. I got talking to her and she gave me her number. I tried txting on sunday and she hasnt replied and its mid day monday. shall i ring her or just leave it? or try another txt?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
what would u do?
- Thread starter Modro
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
catch
Senior Don Juan
the first thing i learned about girls and dating is never txt her the first time you get in touch.. always call her...
and leave the call for a while too..
theres loads of fun things you can do when you make the first call too,
read sinor fingers weapons of mass seduction or just make up some stupid jokes.. my favourite is to just pretend your a sales man, looking to sell diformed monkeys from suadi arabia, or pretend your making an inquiery about the granny smiths apple she has for sale in the paper, loads of jokes like that...
but yeah youve gota call her..
and leave the call for a while too..
theres loads of fun things you can do when you make the first call too,
read sinor fingers weapons of mass seduction or just make up some stupid jokes.. my favourite is to just pretend your a sales man, looking to sell diformed monkeys from suadi arabia, or pretend your making an inquiery about the granny smiths apple she has for sale in the paper, loads of jokes like that...
but yeah youve gota call her..
