"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What would PlayHer Man say about a woman who tells you:

thatfeel

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"It's not your fault I love you" when you aren't even together and haven't even hung out together outside of work and don't know each other on an intimate level yet at all? Just curious.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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She's got something wrong with her ??? something down those lines I bet..:crackup:
 

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thatfeel said:
"It's not your fault I love you" when you aren't even together and haven't even hung out together outside of work and don't know each other on an intimate level yet at all? Just curious.
That would depend on several factors. Most importantly --> Is she hot and do I want to f*ck her?

Another important factor is work. I generally don't mix business with pleasure. So she is SOL unless she quits her job. I sure as hell won't quit mine over a chick. So that's what I would say (assuming she is hot and I want to f*ck her of course) --> "We can't see each other as long as we both work here."

Another factor: What type of job is it? If we work at Walmart then I would totally f*ck her. Who gives a sh!t about that job. But if its a real job then hell no.
 

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PHM, thatfeel here, I'm 23 dating a 49 y/o if you haven't been following my posts. And yes it's a real job. And yes to answer your most importantly question(both of them).
 
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