Walden
Master Don Juan
Discovery of a vestigial penis.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What would make you immediately dump a girl?
- Thread starter RKTek
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hitop
Senior Don Juan
My absolute non-negotiable and cause for immediate dumping:
If she declares or If I find out in a round-about way, that she has a lot of guy friends. No, nada, aint happenin no way. Been there done that. For all you young aspiring DJ's out there pay heed to this one, beware the sea hag who require the attention of many men.
If she declares or If I find out in a round-about way, that she has a lot of guy friends. No, nada, aint happenin no way. Been there done that. For all you young aspiring DJ's out there pay heed to this one, beware the sea hag who require the attention of many men.
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
My number one pet peeve in all the world is a selfish inconsiderate chick. Any chick that asks me for things that she knows she wouldn't be willing to give me in return. Chicks who make a habit of not doing things they say they are gonna do are nexted quickly.
Women with low sex drive are also a no no for me. Chicks who use sex as a treat, i.e "if you take me to see X movie Ill give you sum" or "I don't feel like having sex im depressed cause Ive got a bill due and I can't afford to pay it." B!tch get a job!!!! I especially hate women with Goodwill budgets and Prada taste!!
I don't like dating chicks with kids, but on the occasion that I do, women who don't discipline their kids or who ask you to take them and their kids out or ask you to buy things for their kids!
Women with low sex drive are also a no no for me. Chicks who use sex as a treat, i.e "if you take me to see X movie Ill give you sum" or "I don't feel like having sex im depressed cause Ive got a bill due and I can't afford to pay it." B!tch get a job!!!! I especially hate women with Goodwill budgets and Prada taste!!
I don't like dating chicks with kids, but on the occasion that I do, women who don't discipline their kids or who ask you to take them and their kids out or ask you to buy things for their kids!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
-drug use
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-lying
-No desire for kinky sex
Btw, what exactly is physical abuse from a woman? Beating me up, and throwing me around when I don't do the dishes ?
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-lying
-No desire for kinky sex
Btw, what exactly is physical abuse from a woman? Beating me up, and throwing me around when I don't do the dishes ?
K-Daddy
Don Juan
Haha, guys, what would you think about one like this?
Divorced once
Had at least two live-in boyfriends
Smokes
Drinks all the time
Tattoo
Tongue ring
Lives by herself supporting her younger brother
Had AOL account "broken into" by angry ex who sent out 100+ viruses from it
Had her vehicle stolen from a DIFFERENT angry ex
...all by the time she's 20.
Dunno of any cheating past, and the tattoo and tongue ring aren't too bad...but sheesh. This girl was my oneitis for the longest time, and just now I'm starting to get back into the game. She's a great girl, but I cringe when I think that I wasted my time on all this. It sucks that we waste our time on such troublesome girls when there are so many normal (or should I say less-non-normal) and hotter chicks out there.
Anyway, for my list, aside from the other things up there, I agree with the cheating, lying, paying no attention, being *****y stuff. You guys have covered it pretty well.
Divorced once
Had at least two live-in boyfriends
Smokes
Drinks all the time
Tattoo
Tongue ring
Lives by herself supporting her younger brother
Had AOL account "broken into" by angry ex who sent out 100+ viruses from it
Had her vehicle stolen from a DIFFERENT angry ex
...all by the time she's 20.
Dunno of any cheating past, and the tattoo and tongue ring aren't too bad...but sheesh. This girl was my oneitis for the longest time, and just now I'm starting to get back into the game. She's a great girl, but I cringe when I think that I wasted my time on all this. It sucks that we waste our time on such troublesome girls when there are so many normal (or should I say less-non-normal) and hotter chicks out there.
Anyway, for my list, aside from the other things up there, I agree with the cheating, lying, paying no attention, being *****y stuff. You guys have covered it pretty well.
trajhenkhet
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I agree with hitop and princlydeeds. Dating is fine with these ladies as long as you put all your important stuff first before them. Remember, women need to earn your time. Look at their character and proceed accordingly
Matt ala Casanova
Master Don Juan
-cheating
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
-lying
-physically violent
-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
-poor hygeine (mouth, body, body odor)
Those are the only things that would get me.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Lying is bad, very bad in a relationship
Cheating can very much mean the end
Physically violent means bye bye
Tattoos don't bother me, as long as they don't occupy 10+% of her body
Drug use... well I did drugs in my life so I can understand, but she has to be on her way to stop those
Known VDs is definitely a red flag; my health is far more important than whatever love or connection I could have w/ a woman.
Cheating can very much mean the end
Physically violent means bye bye
Tattoos don't bother me, as long as they don't occupy 10+% of her body
Drug use... well I did drugs in my life so I can understand, but she has to be on her way to stop those
Known VDs is definitely a red flag; my health is far more important than whatever love or connection I could have w/ a woman.
Whatever.
Alcohol, marijuana, and nicotine are all fine (I'm no hypocrite).
Coke, crack, H, and basically any needle drugs are UNACCEPTABLE.
Whatever.
Who cares. They all have a "past" to some extent.
Whatever, but I've found that lesbians/bisexuals have much deeper issues that inevitably become serious problems.
Again, I'm no hypocrite, so this is ok.
Yeah, this is bad, but try finding a girl who doesn't lie...
If you can't handle yourself against some chick, you've got other problems.
Whatever, but there are certain things I won't do.
Are you serious? These are all NEXTable offenses without even having to think about it.
Whatever.
Looking at all of these, the one that scares me the most would be:
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
because that leads to:
-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
I have actually NEXTed girls before I had even given them a chance to exactly what was going based on hearsay from a couple of my friends about her past...
How exactly do you approach a girl and ask her this? Or do you get her tested and see the results before you start anything? I can think of countless times where I really REALLY was feeling a girl who was down to do stuff but I couldn't do it (even with a condom) for fear of catching something... simply because women aren't my LIFE... I have a lot to live for (personal, educational, professional goals), and to have some of it shaven off, or to live with a disease just because you weren't careful scares the living **** outta me. What do you guys do?
-incredibly disgusting past (she was a 'ho') but now says she's changed
because that leads to:
-STD (herpes, syphillis, ghonorrhea, AIDS, or any other yucky body stuff)
I have actually NEXTed girls before I had even given them a chance to exactly what was going based on hearsay from a couple of my friends about her past...
How exactly do you approach a girl and ask her this? Or do you get her tested and see the results before you start anything? I can think of countless times where I really REALLY was feeling a girl who was down to do stuff but I couldn't do it (even with a condom) for fear of catching something... simply because women aren't my LIFE... I have a lot to live for (personal, educational, professional goals), and to have some of it shaven off, or to live with a disease just because you weren't careful scares the living **** outta me. What do you guys do?
Livingitup22
Don Juan
Things like poor appearance, tattoos, piercings, smoking etc. should be obvious to you LONG before the sixty day mark. STD's are a definite turn-off but how exactly are you going to know? Because she told you? Well, under this scenario, you've already tagged her a couple of times, so unless your demanding some negative test results, you're probably going to remain in the dark.....
So I'm dating a hot woman for two months, enjoying the sex, and probably beginning to think about an LTR. What would convince me to dump her immediately?
1.Extreme Temper or Violence
2.Talk of Marriage and/or Children by Her
3.Commiting Serious Criminal Actions
4.Substance Abuse
5.Learning That She's Still Screwing Other Guy(s)
6.Obssesive and/or Controlling Behavior
7.Never Encountering Any Friends or Acquaintances of Hers
Beyond that, I would have to take things on a case-by-case basis. A rather sordid past would make me wary of pursuing anything further, but I generally give people the benefit of the doubt, at least initially(but I'm not so naive as to discount it entirely)
So I'm dating a hot woman for two months, enjoying the sex, and probably beginning to think about an LTR. What would convince me to dump her immediately?
1.Extreme Temper or Violence
2.Talk of Marriage and/or Children by Her
3.Commiting Serious Criminal Actions
4.Substance Abuse
5.Learning That She's Still Screwing Other Guy(s)
6.Obssesive and/or Controlling Behavior
7.Never Encountering Any Friends or Acquaintances of Hers
Beyond that, I would have to take things on a case-by-case basis. A rather sordid past would make me wary of pursuing anything further, but I generally give people the benefit of the doubt, at least initially(but I'm not so naive as to discount it entirely)
IamtheRemedy
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KILL HER SIBLINGS AND SHE WILL PROLLY DUMP U
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
The Time Machine
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pressing the blue button...bump!