What would I say at the club...

[Umirinbrah]

to get a girl to go home with me?

Say you have a good time with a girl at the club. Dancing, flirting, etc. You get her number and say you'll hang out with her in the future. But what if you want to take her home with you?

Has this ever worked before or would it just not work cause girls don't want to look like sluzz? What did you say or do if it did work?

 

[Chamber36]

ask them if they wanna join you for an afterparty.

 

[Radharc]

to get a girl to go home with me?

Say you have a good time with a girl at the club. Dancing, flirting, etc. You get her number and say you'll hang out with her in the future. But what if you want to take her home with you?

Has this ever worked before or would it just not work cause girls don't want to look like sluzz? What did you say or do if it did work?

If you want to take her home just say "wanna go to my place", and yes it works, everything else in this world works one time or another, given the circumstances are right. Don´t try to categorize reality like that, like if a statement applies to all situations possible. An essential DJ skill it to learn to read the situations, know "what´s going on". If the girl is allready into you she will go, it´s about interest level, if she doesn´t have enough interest she wont.
Simple as that, dont try to calculate and analyze possibilities like that. You´ll get a brain cramp and will end up going home alone at times where you could´ve gone accompanied.

 

[Tiguere]

Im heading to the club now for my sister in law birthday party. Im thinking fun not outcome.

 

[powpow]

I find recently that direct is best.

Depends on your style.

Last girl, I didnt even talk to her at all. Sniped her from across the room. She came over.

Hey, whats your name, sweetheart?
Ryuu, yours?
Lets go.
Ok.

 

[Mike32ct]

If you want to take her home just say "wanna go to my place", and yes it works, everything else in this world works one time or another, given the circumstances are right. Don´t try to categorize reality like that, like if a statement applies to all situations possible. An essential DJ skill it to learn to read the situations, know "what´s going on". If the girl is allready into you she will go, it´s about interest level, if she doesn´t have enough interest she wont.
Simple as that, dont try to calculate and analyze possibilities like that. You´ll get a brain cramp and will end up going home alone at times where you could´ve gone accompanied.

Spot on. It's all about interest level. She goes home with you because she's attracted to you and DTF, not because your line was so clever. A very simple line like that listed above will be sufficient.

One piece of advice though..... Don't get too heavy into making out and groping in the club. Make out a bit, then pull back. Leave her wanting more. Then she will be more inclined to leave with you than if you mauled her for a half hour first. At least that is my experience. Then once she's back at your place, you can get as physical as you want.