"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bballswingr1

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Hey, so tonight i was working with a HB9 who is realy flirty with me. We were just messing around pushing each other, etc. Then i took a thing of whipped cream (we work at an ice cream parlor) and sprayed her with it. By accident, i got some in her hair. I couldnt tell if she was really angry or just play angry, but she got pretty distant, while still giving signs though. I didnt apologize, and i dont plan on it, but what should i do here?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yes, you're over reacting a sh*tload. If I take things a little too far and piss a girl off, I don't ever mention it again. It's no big deal. A girl's friend can seduce her boyfriend into cheating on her, and in a weeks time they'll be best friends again, I highly doubt that a little bit of whipped cream in her hair is going to be a big deal.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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