"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What would be my ideal weight?

bob2007

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My intentions: to play varsity soccer at U of T.

I'll be a freshman this fall and my friend who's a graduate thinks I could make it. He gave me the advice of bulking up / stronger. His opinion is that U of T wants taller players and he told me his friend who's similar to me in skill didn't make the final cut because he was small. He said he was my height and weighed 150 lbs.

Me: 130 lbs , 5'7

Now, I'm not sure what he says is true. Strength would definetly improve me slightly, but if I weighed more, wouldn't I become slower? Speed is something I am not willing to give up.

What is my ideal weight?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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drixsa

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there is reallyno way to tell what an ideal body weight is

Appearances can be decieving

unless you put on a ton of muscle it should not slow you down

as a soccer player you prolly have a real strong lower body and a below average sized upper body

look at Diesel's post on bulking
 

bob2007

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ya thats true. My legs and calves have a lotta muscle but my upper body.... lets just say one of my girl friends have bigger biceps.
 
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