Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What Would a DJ Do? She Owes You $10

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Let's say a girl owes you $10 from something of two weeks ago.

She's slept over your house twice since then.

Should you ask for your $10 now? Let it go? It's not really a big deal to me just wondering how this applies to Don Juan principles. I know Mac Dre would say get that money but others I think would do otherwise.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would tell her before she comes over to bring some Mcdonalds, and were even.
 
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I'd never lose any sleep over 10 bucks. If drinks were bought they can get the next round next time around.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't know, I don't care either just asking.

I just was wondering if it would be AFC to not care?
 
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Did they do this in a Seinfeld episode? I remember something like this...
 
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Why you giving *****es money, son?
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Grow a pair and ask for your money. If she doesnt pay you back. You got rid of a girl for only $10.

Lesson to learn... Never lend anyone anything. Unless, you trust them.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hhahahahahahahahahaha

dude it all depends on how YOU think about it.
it's fine if you let it slide and it's also fine if you ask her for $10...

I just laughed so hard ...
 
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There is two sides to it meaning if you asked she could find you being very calculative and asking her back for such small amounts.

The fact is, if there was prior agreement that you are lending her and she is going to return you then stick to it. Not for the sake of the 10 bucks, but for principle. There was a agreement from it and she was not in anyway expecting you to forgo it because in times when you say you treat her you will mean it and not ask her to pay you back etc.

Like when you make terms at the beginning of the relationship, you mean it.

So yea you could follow what other posters laid out for you to ask her to bring some Mac over the next time she comes over. But do let her know what is it for.
 
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Dante420 said:
Let's say a girl owes you $10 from something of two weeks ago.

She's slept over your house twice since then.

Should you ask for your $10 now? Let it go? It's not really a big deal to me just wondering how this applies to Don Juan principles. I know Mac Dre would say get that money but others I think would do otherwise.
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Tell that ***** she better have your money
 
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RFish said:
The fact is, if there was prior agreement that you are lending her and she is going to return you then stick to it. Not for the sake of the 10 bucks, but for principle. There was a agreement from it and she was not in anyway expecting you to forgo it because in times when you say you treat her you will mean it and not ask her to pay you back etc.

Like when you make terms at the beginning of the relationship, you mean it.
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What this guy said ^. If there was an agreement, ask for the money back.


Otherwise, its just $10. What's that worth, half a pack of cigs?
 
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imaginemypotential said:
I would tell her before she comes over to bring some Mcdonalds, and were even.
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We got a winner!:up:

Yes, just give her that type of option to pay you back. It is only "non-DJ" if you let $10 become a big deal that she's able to use your handling of the situation as a $hit test, which you will by that time fail.

When lending a small amount of money to a chick, make sure it is not to seek approval, or buy her, or any reason that puts you in the "provider" role. Take this one as a lesson learned.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Backhand her and put her on the streets till she earns that money back. At $2, it should only take 5 guys....
 
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Scream this at the top of your lungs the next time you see her...

"Where's my money, b*tch!"
 
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Da Realist said:
Backhand her and put her on the streets till she earns that money back. At $2, it should only take 5 guys....
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I wasn't doing it to be a provider, I'm too smart for that. I just did it because it was a very simple thing to do.

evesman said:
Scream this at the top of your lungs the next time you see her...

"Where's my money, b*tch!"
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I like this answer the best.
 
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what i would say is

"hey ****,,,when u gonna give me my 10 back"...
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"either gimme my 10 back or get my a dimebag of weed"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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