“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What Would a DJ Do? She Owes You $10

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Let's say a girl owes you $10 from something of two weeks ago.

She's slept over your house twice since then.

Should you ask for your $10 now? Let it go? It's not really a big deal to me just wondering how this applies to Don Juan principles. I know Mac Dre would say get that money but others I think would do otherwise.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would tell her before she comes over to bring some Mcdonalds, and were even.
 
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I'd never lose any sleep over 10 bucks. If drinks were bought they can get the next round next time around.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know, I don't care either just asking.

I just was wondering if it would be AFC to not care?
 
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Did they do this in a Seinfeld episode? I remember something like this...
 
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Why you giving *****es money, son?
 
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Grow a pair and ask for your money. If she doesnt pay you back. You got rid of a girl for only $10.

Lesson to learn... Never lend anyone anything. Unless, you trust them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hhahahahahahahahahaha

dude it all depends on how YOU think about it.
it's fine if you let it slide and it's also fine if you ask her for $10...

I just laughed so hard ...
 
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There is two sides to it meaning if you asked she could find you being very calculative and asking her back for such small amounts.

The fact is, if there was prior agreement that you are lending her and she is going to return you then stick to it. Not for the sake of the 10 bucks, but for principle. There was a agreement from it and she was not in anyway expecting you to forgo it because in times when you say you treat her you will mean it and not ask her to pay you back etc.

Like when you make terms at the beginning of the relationship, you mean it.

So yea you could follow what other posters laid out for you to ask her to bring some Mac over the next time she comes over. But do let her know what is it for.
 
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Dante420 said:
Let's say a girl owes you $10 from something of two weeks ago.

She's slept over your house twice since then.

Should you ask for your $10 now? Let it go? It's not really a big deal to me just wondering how this applies to Don Juan principles. I know Mac Dre would say get that money but others I think would do otherwise.
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Tell that ***** she better have your money
 
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RFish said:
The fact is, if there was prior agreement that you are lending her and she is going to return you then stick to it. Not for the sake of the 10 bucks, but for principle. There was a agreement from it and she was not in anyway expecting you to forgo it because in times when you say you treat her you will mean it and not ask her to pay you back etc.

Like when you make terms at the beginning of the relationship, you mean it.
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What this guy said ^. If there was an agreement, ask for the money back.


Otherwise, its just $10. What's that worth, half a pack of cigs?
 
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imaginemypotential said:
I would tell her before she comes over to bring some Mcdonalds, and were even.
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We got a winner!:up:

Yes, just give her that type of option to pay you back. It is only "non-DJ" if you let $10 become a big deal that she's able to use your handling of the situation as a $hit test, which you will by that time fail.

When lending a small amount of money to a chick, make sure it is not to seek approval, or buy her, or any reason that puts you in the "provider" role. Take this one as a lesson learned.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Backhand her and put her on the streets till she earns that money back. At $2, it should only take 5 guys....
 
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Scream this at the top of your lungs the next time you see her...

"Where's my money, b*tch!"
 
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Da Realist said:
Backhand her and put her on the streets till she earns that money back. At $2, it should only take 5 guys....
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I wasn't doing it to be a provider, I'm too smart for that. I just did it because it was a very simple thing to do.

evesman said:
Scream this at the top of your lungs the next time you see her...

"Where's my money, b*tch!"
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I like this answer the best.
 
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what i would say is

"hey ****,,,when u gonna give me my 10 back"...
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"either gimme my 10 back or get my a dimebag of weed"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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