"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What WOMEN want

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1. Something they can't have. Someone who is unatainable. A man who has an EGO larger than life.

2. A man who is supremely confident but at times very approachable.

3. A man who is audacious and willing to take major risks.

4. A man who who always is exciting to be around. NEVER negative. People who are insanely postive are rare that is where the attraction lies. You must be RARE, Different....UNIQUE.

5. You must be CURIOUS. CURIOUS about life and all it has to offer.

6. MOST importantly...you must find something you want to do with your life an go after it with unwavering ambition...almost making her a second thought but still including her. Be passionate about what you want to accomplish. She will fall in love with your dream and want to do whatever you want.



Finally, remember you are the sum total of your thoughts to this point in your life. Change your thinking...be aggressive...be outrageously confident. WHat do you have to lose? NOTHING. You are what you think about all day.

JUST BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE !!!!!!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Great post.

However I think a better word in point 1 would be 'Persona' or 'Character' rather than 'Ego'.. some people may interpret that completely the wrong way.

But yeah, good stuff.
 

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Now i know why women hate C&F... its so annoying and fake.
How many usernames do you have gigalo?

JUST BE WHATEVER YOU WANT TO BE !!!!!!!
Add a couple more exclamation marks and that one quote can replace the entire bible.

Great post!
 

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Well maybe not all women.
But what kind of a girl wants to listen to a guy make cracks about how hot he is all the time?

Anwser: a girl with very low self esteem.

C&F gets you the messed up AW while alienating the good girl.
Its shallowness for guys. You know all those things the shallow-egotistical h0s say that you hate? You're turning into one of them.
If that's what you want in a girl... Go for it!
But i think that most guys on this forum don't want some h0.

I've done it so many times. No more C for me... its just F from now on.
 

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Jack in ator

I loved your quote at the end of your post about dealing with reality.

That sums up life. That should be taught in school.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Women want a lot of things ... that doesn't mean they're going to get them.

IMO, busying yourself with what women want is a lot more AFC than a lot of guys here are probably willing to admit.

A man doesn't need to know what women want; he only needs to know what he wants and how to get it.

A thread to help guys here figure those two out would be infinitely more useful than going over the same woman-centered stuff over and over again.
 
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Originally posted by Visceral
Women want a lot of things ... that doesn't mean they're going to get them.

IMO, busying yourself with what women want is a lot more AFC than a lot of guys here are probably willing to admit.

A man doesn't need to know what women want; he only needs to know what he wants and how to get it.

A thread to help guys here figure those two out would be infinitely more useful than going over the same woman-centered stuff over and over again.
Totally agreed. Stop concerning yourselves so much with what is on
their minds. Focus on self improvement, live life to the fullest, don't be a wimp(
especially this last one ) and you will be attractive by DEFAULT.

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DJ
 

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well.. i doubt women want all that.. thats just a mans view of what you think women want.. how about what we men want?.. all those attributes mentioned above are good.. and fairytale like for women.. but when you really face the reality how many women can get a man like that?.. not all of them can and some are scared of success and end up with a chump. due to low self esteem even pretty ones to. those attributes are good traits for a man to have overall and not just to impress a female. when faced with a man of thier socalled dreams these women chicken out or start mind games which they loose at the end. dont think all women are sane..most women are fuked up in the head and regret when ts to late. there are so many chumps around that when a realman comes along they(women) are scared of them.
 

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Originally posted by Jake-inator
Well maybe not all women.
But what kind of a girl wants to listen to a guy make cracks about how hot he is all the time?

Anwser: a girl with very low self esteem.

C&F gets you the messed up AW while alienating the good girl.
Its shallowness for guys. You know all those things the shallow-egotistical h0s say that you hate? You're turning into one of them.
If that's what you want in a girl... Go for it!
But i think that most guys on this forum don't want some h0.

I've done it so many times. No more C for me... its just F from now on.

Hahaha. Being ****y and funny works allll the time. But you have to mix it up. girls are attractdd to confident guys, if you walked around talknig about how plain and normal you are, do you REALLY think you will attract women? :rolleyes:

The point of C&F is to demonstrate you have self confidence but dont take yourself too seriously and have a sense of humor. If ur just ****y then ya, you will look shallow.
 
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