what women want

[coldcoal]

Player, you know there is a lot of sh*t to weed throuh round here. I haven't been active lately, so I've got to call on 'em to catch up, right?

One to another is something of it's own. But when it's pumped into the norm as is, you know it's something different...

Hey, like I said, my bad if I'm off.

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Hell if the KKK had a book on meeting women then I would glance through it for game tips too. No big deal fella!

But you won't take advice from the horse’s mouth - a woman.

You've got issues.


Royal-tiger - Excellent post. Although being that I am a woman I feel I must defend myself a bit and say that his behavior is not limited to just women. Men do it too.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by Eileen
But you won't take advice from the horse’s mouth - a woman.

You've got issues.


Royal-tiger - Excellent post. Although being that I am a woman I feel I must defend myself a bit and say that his behavior is not limited to just women. Men do it too.

Thats not true eileeny. If you read a post I posted last night I was quoting one of my girls right from the phone...look for the guy who admitted to doing the wrong thing and being unDJ like.

I was once accused of supplicating to women on this forum cause I posted a post asking for what qualites they saw in men.

So as usual your wrong about me again...no big deal. I enjoy keeping you guessing.

 

[Eileen]

Originally posted by Player_Supreme
I enjoy keeping you guessing.

Oh yea, and I spend hours and hours wondering about you ... NOT!

 

[lerxst]

Originally posted by Eileen
Oh yea, and I spend hours and hours wondering about you ... NOT!

I think the lady prostests too much. I'd say she's ready to be joining your stable, player supreme. Ya got her all primed up

 

[Eileen]

I'd rather drink ajax.

 

[Big Pappy]

Ah, the fabled question "What do women want?"

I'm no pimp, no player and as far as "womanizing" goes, i'm barely competent at best. Am I a "Don Juan"? Hardly. I'm just a slightly better than average regular guy working and playing his way through the world. That being said, I'm going to answer this question to the best of my abilities.

If you find yourself asking the question "What do women want?", this means that some girl has no doubt left you scratching your head wondering what went wrong. You either supplicated to her, thus rendering you far too easy or you have been yourself and she just didn't like you. Perhaps you "played the role" in which you dropped the act somewhere along the line and she dropped you. Maybe you've still got her, but she's driving you crazy with her little tests, demands and what not.

In the initial thread, it is suggested the if you don't care if she walks away or not, that she'll practically fall in love with you.

Personally, I'm not sure I agree with this as it's written, but I suppose it depends on the context.

The smartest people I know are always leading me to the answer to my questions by asking me a question that will lead me to the answers I seek. I will do the same.

Why are you so concerned with what a woman wants? If you are the pick-up artist type, going only after the one night stand, than I can see where you would want to pretend to be whatever a specific woman wants in a man. However, the dynamics are different each time. You ask the same girl what she wants in a man at different times during the day, month and year, I'd go so far as to say that the only common adjective would be a pulse. You ask diffferent women the same question, your list of answers will be more varied.

If you're a so called pimp - well, I don't have a clue what these fellows are about, so I'll take the 5th and just confess my ignorance.

If what you're looking for is just to take a few pretty girls out for a fun time, learn to like yourself and have fun by yourself first. Then you can bring other people into your world. If you're dull by yourself, a girl is just going to add to your problem.

Just imagine if you could have sex with any girl you wanted, no strings. No refractory period required. Sure, you'd be like a kid in the candy store. Even so, if it were me, I'd never have the Almond Joy. I just don't like almonds. I don't care what you cover them in, no matter how gourmet the chocolate is, an almond is an almond.

Licorice? Lots of girls love it, lots of girls hate it. This is their preference. Long hair, short hair, facial hair, tattoos, piercings, they all decorate the body. The body is in itself a decoration, housing your persona. Your personality, as it were. Little kids usually don't like broccoli. Cover it in cheese, maybe you can chide them into eating it.

In a nutshell, it comes down to this:

Be who you are comfortable with. You decide how you feel. You control how you feel. Do the things you enjoy doing and sooner or later, you'll find a girl that enjoys doing the same things.


You wear the clean comfortable clothes that you like. If I started wearing chinos instead of jeans to attract a girl, that means I have to wear them all the time. If I don't, she'll drop me. If I wanted to wear chinos, I'd have been wearing them in the first place.

As the song goes,

"Pimping's easy when you're not a pimp,
you don't have to strut or fake the limp,
just be yourself, you've got nothing to lose,
f*ck navigators and alligator shoes!"
Friday Night Gigalos

 

[Player_Supreme]

Nice words Big Pappy. You should run for office.

 

[Omega]

Personally, when girls start **** with me I just laugh and walk away.

When it's ONLINE, that's even funnier! This girl has tried me on MSN, and then again on AOL. She's in my grade, and she litrally hates me with a passion for some reason, even though I've never talked to her. So I keep popping her and saying "If you have something to say, SAY IT TO MY FACE AT SCHOOL!", and then she just goes on to insult me even more. So I just keep repeating the sdame thing, and eventually blocking her getting the last word in.

Boys, don't put up with it if you don't have to. Walk away, that's the best argument you can ever give. By defending yourself your just going to open your borders up for error. If it turns physical and your in the position where you can't defend yourself (IE: She gets someone after you). GO TO SOMEONE ABOUT IT (specifically in High School). Outside you can just get around it, but when it's at school and theres a gang of kids after you, your not going to get away from it everyday. They thrive having power, so take it away from them.

 

[Big Pappy]

Nice words Big Pappy. You should run for office.

Player_Supreme


Thanks, I think. Guess I am a bit long winded.