what women want

[joey37]

In the past couple of months, I've noticed something about most of the women I've been on dates with. A lot of women these days, whether you've just met them or have been dating them for awhile, like to give "**** tests". Now, what I'm referring to as a "**** test", is, they try to start an argument with you, in order to gauge your reaction.


From reading this board, my own experiences and talking to some other dj's, I've noticed that when a woman gives you a **** test, DON'T PUT UP WITH IT. Now read that carefully. If a woman understands that you want to be with her, you respect her and genuinely have things in common, YET YOU WON'T GIVE 3 SHlTS IF SHE WALKS AWAY, you'll practically make her fall in love with you.


Most guys these days are WIMPS, who are too afraid to let the girl walk!!!!!. I know this subject has probably been covered many times on this forum, but I wanted to add my "real world" view on it and how it's affected my dating.

 

[Eileen]

Think Pavlov. Women throw fits because it works. Having a man say he'd rather be alone than put up with that kind of thing is a powerful statement.

You make your own reality. If you buy a woman flowers everytime she gets upset at you, you're rewarding her for getting upset. If you respond to her needs when she's calm ...

Works on men, dogs and children too.

 

[coldcoal]

Think Eileen. Men throw fits because it works. Having a woman say she'd rather be alone than put up with that kind of thing is a powerful statement.

You make your own reality. If you give a man a BJ everytime he gets upset at you, you're rewarding him for getting upset. If you respond to his needs when he's calm ...

Practice what we preach, right?

 

[DJ_Dork]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
The way to win an argument is to not argue.

-GDJ

Yeah... that REALLY helps. REALLY it does.

Dude take my advice - if she tests you.. just pause for a couple seconds and then answer as neutrally as you can. SHE WILL throw another backup question to test you on the same topic.. Just repeat and be quiet.

Dude, I have been tested on 1. Whether I'd be involved in a 1-night stand (how easy I am) 2. Would I participate in a threesome (loyalty/kink test)

etc - she'll do it. While she is testing you - YOU also throw a test in too.

 

[Eileen]

Oh! Nerve. Hit.

But, if a woman won't have sex with a man when she's upset at him, it's using sex as a weapon!

 

[Player_Supreme]

"There are 3 things which are wonderful to me, four which I do not understand:

The way of an eagle in the sky
The way of a serpent on a rock
The way of a ship in the middle of the sea
And the way of a man with a maid."

Proverbs 30: 18,19

 

[THA REALNESS]

This is one of the reasons i'm all for treating a girl as an equal nowadays.

If somebody else other than a woman started sh1t with you more likley than not you wouldn't back down.

 

[coldcoal]

Originally posted by Eileen
Oh! Nerve. Hit.

But, if a woman won't have sex with a man when she's upset at him, it's using sex as a weapon!

Uh-huh. And sex is the first way for women to show how sorry they are too. I've been around the block a few times girl!

 

[Eileen]

Oh no ... If I want to show my man I'm sorry I cook.

bj's come well after dinner ...

 

[Player_Supreme]

From: ZENMACK (aka Player_Supreme) Jul-8 7:23 pm
To: QUICKGAME_16 (10 of 18)

1597.10 in reply to 1597.8

thats a big 10-4...I didn't have a chance to finish that quote above so here is the rest of it:


"....most men are the biggest tricks in the world. Because they're weak for pu..ssy and wh.ores know that.

The secret to controlling a woman's body is called desire and you must create this by teasing her....

If every time a baby screams for a lollipop you give it to her, you spoil the baby. You become the trick and the baby becomes the master because she's in control. But if you hold off, the baby has a greater desire for the lollipop because she can't have it on demand. That pust you in control. But you must do it in a kind, innocent, loving way and prove that it is in her best interest. This is called sweet torture and it puts you in total control.

There's so many ways of doing this that it's unreal. Nieggers talk about freaking out all the time, but they wind up fu,,cking every time. Master Pimps don't fu.ck nothing that don't belong to them. Only tricks do. That's what seperates the men from the boys.

That thang that goes on inside your head, Whitey calls the brain. But in pimp school it's called the Boss. That thang between your legs Whites calls genitals, but in pimp school it's called the Jones. Now if your Jones overrules the Boss, that mean you gonna be a trick. But if your Boss overrules your Jones, then that means you gonna be a Master Pimp. ....a pimp is simply a real man. A man that had total control over his desires and emotions at all times. He doesn't allow himself to become a servant to pus,sy but instead to control and dominate it as only a Master can"

 

[coldcoal]

Eileen, BJ first THEN food.

 

[Player_Supreme]

From: ZENMACK (aka Player_Supreme) Jul-7 10:31 pm
To: QUICKGAME_16 (7 of 18)

1597.7 in reply to 1597.5

I would always go for the making love to her. This will open her up to your suggestions more. Remember Eddie Murphies routine where he said once you make love to a woman so good that she makes that special sound...then you can do anything you want...
ho's crave being loved...even street walking ho's.

"All women rich or poor, young or old want to be loved no matter what they say. It's part of their nature. That's why bit.ches can sell pus.sy and don't think about it. They're not like men. They're not interested in sex without love. Women want more than just sex. They want to make love but they also want to be made love to."
Romance aint never died and never will. It’s going to always be around. .... don’t worry about what people think. Because the less you try to impress people the more you impress them.


Don’t talk about yourself too much. Talk about life and positive things. Nothing negative and make her aware you don’t like negative things. This makes you look like a winner and women love winners. Look straight into her eyes. Don’t look away. Don’t blush. Looking shy, remember is for wimps and nerds. Look confident, not lustful. Look at her as though you are mesmerized by her beauty. You will appear to be genuine. That’s sexy and it turns a woman on.

I asked a group of my who.res one time what were the sexiest parts of a man’s body. Most of them agreed that the eyes were the biggest turn on. That’s why it’s important for you to look strong and confident….Women love eyes. Just think about how they stare in the mirror and put on eyelashes, and how they compliment each others eyes, how they notice the different colors. Blue eyes, brown eyes, and beautiful green cat eyes. …The eyes are a reflection of our soul. This might shock you… but, the runner up was not biceps or chest, it was asses and flat stomachs.

-The Pimp's Rap by The Master Pimp

 

[coldcoal]

Player, the second I read "Whitey" is the very same second I considered you ignorant. Would you take tips from me seriously if I said "what negros refer to as..."

 

[joey37]

Originally posted by coldcoal
Player, the second I read "Whitey" is the very same second I considered you ignorant. Would you take tips from me seriously if I said "what negros refer to as..."

I'm controlling my emotions.......... You're right coldcoal.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by coldcoal
Player, the second I read "Whitey" is the very same second I considered you ignorant. Would you take tips from me seriously if I said "what negros refer to as..."

Then you miss read it..it was a quote from a book..not my words! Sorry for your missunderstanding! If you look at the post you will see that I was reposting it from another site kid.

 

[coldcoal]

Oh. My bad. I thought "Zenmack AKA Player Supreme" ment Zenmack "also known as" Player Supreme. Silly me.

 

[Royal-tiger]

Originally posted by joey37
If a woman understands that you want to be with her, you respect her and genuinely have things in common, YET YOU WON'T GIVE 3 SHlTS IF SHE WALKS AWAY, you'll practically make her fall in love with you.

I have always practiced this philosophy -- not just with women. It reflects your appreciation of self-respect as well as conviction in what you believe in.

As mentioned in my previous post, I have dumped many women for falsifying/manipulating information for their selfish purposes. In every case the individual clinged more and tried every which way to stay together. However, I decided to walk away since it initially ridiculed my intelligence, something I am not willing to compromise on. Remember, women (and men) always know what they are doing when they "test" or lie to you. It is just they think they can get away with it. When you don't give in it becomes unexpected and shows your strong personality/confidence.

Generally speaking, people try doubly hard to sway someone who is skeptical.

HOPE + FEAR = PASSION

(Fear implies the likelihood of losing someone)

Besides when you are successful, there is no shortage of HOT women! One of the reasons I have always emphasized the importance of your career over women. The latter will always follow the former.

 

[coldcoal]

Re: Re: what women want

Originally posted by Royal-tiger
I have always practiced this philosophy -- not just with women. It reflects your appreciation of self-respect as well as conviction in what you believe in.

As mentioned in my previous post, I have dumped many women for falsifying/manipulating information for their selfish purposes. In every case the individual clinged more and tried every which way to stay together. However, I decided to walk away since it initially ridiculed my intelligence, something I am not willing to compromise on. Remember, women (and men) always know what they are doing when they "test" or lie to you. It is just they think they can get away with it. When you don't give in it becomes unexpected and shows your strong personality/confidence.

Generally speaking, people try doubly hard to sway someone who is skeptical.

HOPE + FEAR = PASSION

(Fear implies the likelihood of losing someone)

Besides when you are successful, there is no shortage of HOT women! One of the reasons I have always emphasized the importance of your career over women. The latter will always follow the former.

Excellent post.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by coldcoal
Oh. My bad. I thought "Zenmack AKA Player Supreme" ment Zenmack "also known as" Player Supreme. Silly me.

I am zenmack at the pimps network. That was a quote from a book by the master pimp that pertained to the thread topic...if you close your eyes to game lessons too soon then you will always having trouble elevating your game.

I don't know you cold...your screen name makes me think your a brotha but your comment tells me otherwise.

There is a saying: Game recognizes game.

Many white guys have read that quote and learned from it...the language is used was black to black so of course there will be words that may not fit all mediums.

Hell if the KKK had a book on meeting women then I would glance through it for game tips too. No big deal fella!

 

[Player_Supreme]

"Generally speaking, people try doubly hard to sway someone who is skeptical."

There are 3 types of people:

1. believers
2. doubters
3. undecided

Only the 3rd deserve your attention. why waste it on closed minds or minds that already follow.